Hi I heard about my host's decision for seperation today and am writing what will be happened to me.
I have 2 host parents and both of them are girls, one is Penny and the other one is Anne.
from the first day of here I don't like Penny because of her personality and all the weird things to do, but on the other hand,
I got along well with Anne.
Well, I can say Penny basically has some personality problem. She's totally opposite of outgoing and very dominating person.
for example, if they decide to decorate the house, then all the stuff that will be used should be selected by Penny or she will
get mad at it. also, just overally she likes blaming and pointing out other's problem or mistake. How weird is that.
Also, at the very first 3 months, I tried to change her attitude towards not even me but also Anne but it didn't work out at all.
so I thought about moving to other host very seriously, and another day Penny and I had another heated argument and finally I was so angry that packed my stuff but I just finally decided to stay there after long talk with my IEC. but my IEC didn't give me any chance to move though she made me keep stay there, my IEC only tired to make it right(the relationship with my host) saying that my hosts definitely want to change the situation better. of course I wasn't happy at all during the time and Penny and I got only worse relationship. but I can say that I tried my best. she is just a person who does whatever she wanna do.
I was so bored since they have no host kids and just be living with Penny got me so much stress. not just in my case, Anne often complain about Penny.
and this morning, I got up and went downstair to get something to eat. while I was eating, Anne came to me and told me that she
asked Penny to move out last night and she said she doesn't know when it's gonna be but Penny will move out eventually. Anne is also tired of get stress at home, which should be the place for relaxing.
I was kind of surprised but on the other hand, thought that it's even better because she is that much a source of stress.
anyway, according to what she said, after their seperation, am I going to live with her alone? is it just literary nothing to do with me?
do I need to tell this to my IEC? I'm just so confused about what's going on and going to be.
sorry for upsidedown writing, I didn't have enough time since I'm in the class now. and if I have to move host for some reason, what do I need to do?