Keep it up study on Feb 22nd in 2014

안녕하세요.. 여러분.. 리더 Alex 입니다..오늘은 종일 멍한 기분이었어요.. 연아 선수의 새벽의 그 멋지고 아름다운 경기 후 결과를 보고 너무 마음이 아팠습니다..여러분도 모두 그러셨겠죠.. 그럴거라 믿습니다.. 내일은 좀 더 밝은 모습으로 볼 수 있기를 바라봅니다..^^    Topic1.  Life and Destiny   We all were put here by our parents, not our own intentions.  Some people who are satisfied with their current status think we should be grateful for our being here, but others, who are never happy with their lives, see this world as a sea of troubles with no end in sight.  People think, since we were born, we should do our best. Many assume that all of us do our best to become somebody, but only a few succeed. Why? Do you think a person's destiny is predetermined by God, or is it just a matter of personal struggle? Nobody knows. One thing is certain: it is useless to complain about destiny.  Instead we should make the effort to be a useful person in society.  Express Yourself    Questions  1. Are you grateful for being born into this world? 2. What do you want to accomplish with your life? 3. What do you think you should do to achieve your life goal? 4. Do you think life becomes meaningful only if we are successful? 5. What do you think is the most import!!!!ant thing in life? 6. What is the most import!!!!ant thing in your everyday life? 7. Describe your everyday life 8. Do you believe in reincarnation? If so, what do you want to be in your future life? 9. Which do you think is more import!!!!ant, your current life or your future life? 10. Do you think we were created by God? Or do you believe in the evolutionary theory?    Topic 2: How to Have a Long Term Relationship  Steps  1. Begin by simply being friends with the person you are seeking a relationship with. This stage is vital as it allows you to learn more about your partner, as well as confirm‎‍/deny your feelings towards a relationship with them.   2. Going off the basis that a good long term relationship is based around love, we can look into how love is defined. Dr. Sternberg (a psychologist who studied love) put forth an article speaking of the different aspects of love. In short, there are three vital components that make up true love (or consummate love).  These components are Intimacy, Passion, and Commitment. The intimacy portion of love is that of friends; You enjoy spending time together, and have grown rather close strictly If you rush head-first into passion without considering the needs of a very close friend, somebody is going to end up hurt.  The final, and equally important, aspect is that of Commitment. There are two forms of commitment, short-term and long-term. Short-term commitment is the thought of simply saying "I am willing to love this person" this may not involve a necessary long term commitment, but it is the initial choice that one makes before entering the relationship.  The long-term aspect (and the one we're discussing) is the choice to remain with said person for an extended portion of time. When all three aspects are fulfilled, consummate love is attained.   3. Now that you fully understand what love is, you can make your own assumptions as to what you need to do. While every aspect does not need to be instantly attained (IE. some portions may come later in the relationship) usually all need to be present in order to maintain a healthy long term relationship.   Tips  1. Communication can be the key. Although early on there may be nervous apprehension, this is all part of the game. In time though, you may need to be fully frank with someone and let them know how you feel.  2. Remember to TAKE IT SLOW! A long-term relationship is something to work towards, it is not just given to you. Just make sure that neither you, nor your partner is uncomfortable with any aspect of the relationship you are in and you'll be fine.    Questions  1. Between long term relationship and short term relationship, Which one do you prefer? 2. Even some people try to having long-term relationship, it's not easy to them to keep their relationship.. So, Are there any tips to keep long term relationship? 3. Do you love yourself? Do you think kinda self-holic affect to relationship? how does it work? Is there bad side effects or good side effects? 4. Do you believe in Soul-mate? 5. Have u ever met your soul mate? If you say yes, Why did you let him/her go? If you say no, what do you do-something to meet your soul-mate? 6. Do you think ego or pride ruin relationship ? 7. What is the difference between love and being in love? 8. Is it more important to love or be loved?