Trying Not to Crash and Burn
KAREN EHMAN
“But I am trusting you, O LORD, saying, 'You are my God!' My future is in your hands. Rescue me from those who hunt me down relentlessly.” Psalm 31:14-15 (NLT)
"Mom, quick … look at that lady!" My 14-year-old son shouted as we headed down the interstate on an errand-running Thursday afternoon. "She should not be doing that," he added for emphasis.
I glanced over at the car next to us, expecting to see someone without her hands at the 10 and 2 o'clock positions like my by-the-rulebook-boy does when he’s training behind the wheel. Instead, I nearly ran off the road while gawking at what my Driver's Ed patrolman had spotted.
Next to us was a woman cradling her cell phone on her right shoulder, holding an open fast-food salad container in her left hand, ripping open a salad dressing packet with her teeth and her right hand ... all while steering her car with her knees!
What in the world!? My boys and I thought surely if she kept up this multitasking method of driving, she was going to cause a crash.
I would NEVER attempt to do all of that when I drive, I smugly thought to myself. Entirely too dangerous and probably against the law. Yep, when it comes to being a safe-driving expert, the apple doesn't fall far from the "Honey-you-didn't-use-your-blinker-back-there" maternal tree.
It wasn't until later that night it hit me. Sure, I might not dangerously multitask when driving, thereby risking collision. But in my day-to-day life? In my schedule? In my "sure-I-can-take-on-one-more-responsibility-so-everyone-will-like-me" way? I sometimes dangerously multitask to the point I am heading for a crash.
Taking on too many responsibilities, no matter how "good" they might appear to be, can often render us ineffective for service to God. Yet, He knows our limits. He understands our capacities. He is willing, if we’ll ask Him, to help us navigate the busyness and activity that often trips us up.
On one of my so-busy-I-couldn’t-breathe days, I opened my Bible and read today’s key verse: "But I am trusting you, O LORD, saying, 'You are my God!' My future is in your hands. Rescue me from those who hunt me down relentlessly" (Psalm 31:14-15).
While I’m sure the psalmist David was talking about actual physical enemies — men who could chase, catch and ultimately hurt you — I realized that day my enemy was busyness. Too many activities and responsibilities outside my four walls were about to do me in. They chased me, cornered me and worst of all, were about to go in for the kill.
Thankfully, God can rescue us from the barren life of busyness. He invites us to hold our too-full plates up to Him, allowing Him to scrape off all the activities and responsibilities. Then, He’ll place only the items HE longs for us to possess back on our plates.
When this happens, we can create space in our calendar to retreat, places of sweet respite in our days where we connect with God. Times when we slow down and sit still to listen and learn from the Creator of time itself.
So, how about it friend? Let’s allow God to scrape off our distractions before we crash and burn!
Dear Lord, forgive me for allowing busyness to overtake my life — crowding out others and worst of all You. Help me as I purpose to place only those items on my plate that You long for me to have. In Jesus' Name, Amen.