Mother of Peace Chapter 7. Today's Growing Pains Bring Tomorrow's Sunshine 6. A helicopter plants seeds of love
The movie, The Shawshank Redemption, made a deep impression on me. The main character is a man who is unjustly imprisoned, endures prison life for many years and finally escapes in search of freedom. Father Moon was unjustly imprisoned six times, and that similarity with the main character meant this film moved my heart. At the very end of the movie, he writes in a letter: 'Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and no good thing ever dies.”
Hope, love, friendship and beauty are unchanging, no matter how much time passes, and their value is eternal. Love awakens hope and courage in the most hopeless of circumstances. Today many people have lost their moral direction, and we lament the dominance of materialism. The only way to heal this pain is by living lives of true love for the sake of others, not thinking about oneself.
I open my eyes at daybreak and begin each day with prayer and meditation. I think very carefully about what I will do for whom, and then I act on that. Religious teachings and political and social reforms are important, but we cannot create a happy world through these alone.
True love is giving a pair of socks with your whole heart to your neighbor who is shivering from the cold. Sometimes it is sacrificing completely for an utter stranger whom you may never see again. True love is giving and forgetting that you gave.
Today the Unification Church is recognized as a worldwide religion, but into the 1970s, we didn't even have a decent church building. My husband and I used all the money that church members donated for the sake of society and the world. When missionaries went overseas, they left with just a suitcase.
They had to find work on their own and use the money they made to run their own centers. They dedicated the donations that came in to establish schools and medical clinics, and to fund voluntary service. We have continued this type of service and work for the past 60 years.
In Korean, aewon means 'a garden of love.' In 1994, Father Moon and I established a service organization, the Aewon Bank, to enable all people to share love in Korea. Our followers came together, rolled up their sleeves and offered voluntary services. Ever since, the Aewon Bank has supported the provision of free meals, international aid, and concerts for charity.
In order to expand this further, I established the Wonmo Pyeongae Scholarship Foundation. When my husband passed away, monetary offerings of condolence flooded in from all over the world, and I saved all of it as seed money.
I also sold the helicopter we had used for our mission work and added that money to those funds. It all went into an endowment, out of which we have been able to give $10 million in scholarships every year. Thus, the first thing I did after Father Moon's ascension was set up the Wonmo Pyeongae Scholarship to help educate talented people for the future. Now excellent students from all over the world, including Korea, Japan, Southeast Asia, Africa, Europe and America, are benefiting from this scholarship.
Of course, I heard some people buzzing about that. “I heard that Mother Moon is selling the helicopter she and Father Moon used together!” one would say, and another would respond, “It's such a historic artifact; shouldn't it be in a museum?” While I respect expressions of regret over the sale of the helicopter, and completely understand the sentiments, I made the decision. It is for the sake of our future leadership. While it is important to honor the past, it is more important to teach God's word and raise future generations of faithful leaders.
The truth that education shapes young people, and that young people shape the future, will never change. To ensure a bright future, it is absolutely necessary to raise up youth of talent, wisdom and virtue. Wonmo is made up of the Chinese characters won (圓) meaning “round' and mo (母) meaning “mother.” In the family, it is the mother who embraces each family member with love, despite their different personalities, and guides the family towards harmony.
Pyeongae(平愛) means to take care of the less fortunate so all can stand on an equal plane in a cosmos of true love. I set the foundation for such education to endure beyond the generations. When children try to play with a spinning top, it is hard for them at first, but once it starts spinning, they can keep it spinning with minimal help.
A scholarship endowment is the same. It is difficult to establish, but once it is up and running, it is not too difficult to keep going. Education takes time. We need to erect a wall to block the wind and watch them 24 hours a day so they can grow into beautiful and moral adults. It takes nine months in a mother's womb to create a life. Even after such a period of preparation, a baby cannot walk overnight. Children need to go through a period of growth.
I forget myself when doing this kind of work. When I put others first, I feel I can live a life of true goodness. If we devote ourselves to the people around us with the heart that nothing we give for God's purposes will go to waste, we will find true happiness. When we are not fixated on our personal happiness, God will come to us. |