좋은 부모는 친구같은 부모다~(황기,풍선덩굴,사철란,수련,산층층이,풀협죽도,시계꽃,개미취,덴드롱)

나를 찾기 위해 한 상담공부아직도 안되는 것과 되는 것을 구분 하지 못하고 있다마음이 행하는 일이라고 말하면서 상담의 시작과 종결해야 하는 시기가 언제인지 나의 개인적인 감정이 얼마나 많이 개입했는지상담의 기본 원리7가지가 너무도 어렵다 1.개별화의 원리2.의도적인 감정표현의 원리3.통제된 정서적 관의 원리4.수용의 원리5.비심판적 태도의 원리6.자기 결정의 원리7.비밀보장의 원리 내담자의 마음은 나와 다름을 잊지 말아야하는데아직 잘 훈련되지 못한 나를 발견할때마다 힘겨움에 부딪치게 된다 분명한 것은우리가 살아가는 주변 환경과 함께 살아가는 사람의 영향을 가장 많이 받는다 좋은 것이든 나쁜것이든 자주 보고 접하다 보면당연하게 자연스러워 진다 내가 생각하는 좋은 부모는 친구같은 부모다 풀협죽도 <img width="700" class="txc-image" id="tx_entry_78465_" style="clear: none; float: none;" src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cfile/cafe/2412253D55E5A38913" border="0" vspace="1" hspace="1" data-filename="20150824_114634.jpg" exif="{}" actualwidth="700" id="A_2412253D55E5A38913A716"/>산층층이 <img width="700" class="txc-image" id="tx_entry_51977_" style="clear: none; float: none;" src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cfile/cafe/2422773D55E5A38903" border="0" vspace="1" hspace="1" data-filename="20150824_120738.jpg" exif="{}" actualwidth="700" id="A_2422773D55E5A38903E2E1"/>꽃의 여왕~수련 <img width="576" class="txc-image" id="tx_entry_66625_" style="clear: none; float: none;" src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cfile/cafe/27013A3D55E5A38D24" border="0" vspace="1" hspace="1" data-filename="1440949555708.jpg" exif="{}" actualwidth="576" id="A_27013A3D55E5A38D24C66E"/>시계꽃 영춘화 <img width="576" class="txc-image" id="tx_entry_99298_" style="clear: none; float: none;" src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cfile/cafe/2713833D55E5A39012" border="0" vspace="1" hspace="1" data-filename="1440588633666.jpg" exif="{}" actualwidth="576" id="A_2713833D55E5A390124C55"/>개미취 <img width="576" class="txc-image" id="tx_entry_38211_" style="clear: none; float: none;" src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cfile/cafe/2171733D55E5A39332" border="0" vspace="1" hspace="1" data-filename="1440588646060.jpg" exif="{}" actualwidth="576" id="A_2171733D55E5A3933282FF"/>다알리아 <img width="576" class="txc-image" id="tx_entry_10130_" style="clear: none; float: none;" src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cfile/cafe/2365203D55E5A3963D" border="0" vspace="1" hspace="1" data-filename="1440555345044.jpg" exif="{}" actualwidth="576" id="A_2365203D55E5A3963D8DDD"/>풍선덩굴 <img width="576" class="txc-image" id="tx_entry_90677_" style="clear: none; float: none;" src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cfile/cafe/231F293D55E5A39906" border="0" vspace="1" hspace="1" data-filename="1440914052304.jpg" exif="{}" actualwidth="576" id="A_231F293D55E5A399067959"/>입술꽃이 아님요덴드롱임당 꽃말~ 우아한 여성 <img width="576" class="txc-image" id="tx_entry_11282_" style="clear: none; float: none;" src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cfile/cafe/257F443E55E5A5E330" border="0" vspace="1" hspace="1" data-filename="1440914054366.jpg" exif="{}" actualwidth="576" id="A_257F443E55E5A5E3300147"/> 황기 <img width="576" class="txc-image" id="tx_entry_61629_" style="clear: none; float: none;" src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cfile/cafe/220CFD3F55E5A39C1E" border="0" vspace="1" hspace="1" data-filename="1440997654092.jpg" exif="{}" actualwidth="576" id="A_220CFD3F55E5A39C1E79EE"/>임파첸스 <img width="576" class="txc-image" id="tx_entry_92078_" style="clear: none; float: none;" src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cfile/cafe/241DF33F55E5A39F0F" border="0" vspace="1" hspace="1" data-filename="1440588638120.jpg" exif="{}" actualwidth="576" id="A_241DF33F55E5A39F0F0AEA"/>여주 <img width="576" class="txc-image" id="tx_entry_39012_" style="clear: none; float: none;" src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cfile/cafe/2621EC3F55E5A3A20B" border="0" vspace="1" hspace="1" data-filename="1440588647954.jpg" exif="{}" actualwidth="576" id="A_2621EC3F55E5A3A20B626B"/>땅빈대 <img width="576" class="txc-image" id="tx_entry_18113_" style="clear: none; float: none;" src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cfile/cafe/2519773F55E5A3A514" border="0" vspace="1" hspace="1" data-filename="1440473991192.jpg" exif="{}" actualwidth="576" id="A_2519773F55E5A3A51471DC"/>사철란 <img width="540" class="txc-image" id="tx_entry_71175_" style="clear: none; float: none;" src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cfile/cafe/262B703F55E5A3A602" border="0" vspace="1" hspace="1" data-filename="1440241567514.jpg" exif="{}" actualwidth="540" id="A_262B703F55E5A3A6020A8E"/>쥐손이풀 <img width="1024" class="txc-image" id="tx_entry_67491_" style="clear: none; float: none;" src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cfile/cafe/210E4E3F55E5A3AA1F" border="0" vspace="1" hspace="1" data-filename="1440997657799.jpg" exif="{}" actualwidth="1024" id="A_210E4E3F55E5A3AA1FF7C1"/>서양노랑이 <img width="576" class="txc-image" id="tx_entry_59473_" style="clear: none; float: none;" src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cfile/cafe/26054A3F55E5A3AD28" border="0" vspace="1" hspace="1" data-filename="1440588640377.jpg" exif="{}" actualwidth="576" id="A_26054A3F55E5A3AD288830"/> <img width="576" class="txc-image" id="tx_entry_50537_" style="clear: none; float: none;" src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cfile/cafe/21017F3F55E5A3B02B" border="0" vspace="1" hspace="1" data-filename="1440997662029.jpg" exif="{}" actualwidth="576" id="A_21017F3F55E5A3B02B1067"/>붉은토기풀 <img width="576" class="txc-image" id="tx_entry_70300_" style="clear: none; float: none;" src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cfile/cafe/2173E13F55E5A3B335" border="0" vspace="1" hspace="1" data-filename="1440588642441.jpg" exif="{}" actualwidth="576" id="A_2173E13F55E5A3B335FA57"/>자귀풀 <img width="576" class="txc-image" id="tx_entry_34453_" style="clear: none; float: none;" src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cfile/cafe/2207A73F55E5A3B625" border="0" vspace="1" hspace="1" data-filename="1440914069703.jpg" exif="{}" actualwidth="576" id="A_2207A73F55E5A3B625BB55"/>