Theologians have sometimes asked [whether we shall ‘know one another’ in Heaven],
and whether [the particular love-relations /worked out on earth] would then continue to have any significance.
It seems reasonable to reply: ‘It may depend on [what kind of love it had become, or was becoming, on earth].’
For, surely, [to meet in the eternal world someone //for whom your love in this, however strong, had been merely natural],
would not be (on that ground) even interesting.
Would it not be like meeting in adult life someone //who had seemed to be a great friend at your preparatory school
/solely because of common interests and occupations?
If there was nothing more, if he was not a kindred soul, he will now be a total stranger.
Neither of you now plays conkers.
You no longer want to swop your help with his French exercise for his help with your arithmetic.
In Heaven, I suspect, [a love //that had never embodied Love Himself] would be equally irrelevant.
For Nature has passed away.
[All //that is not eternal] is eternally out of date.
From The Four Loves