■ Do well when you are there!!!
The famous novelist Shin Dal-ja appeared on a radio talk show and was chatting with her, when the host asked a question about her husband, she answered:
"For nine years, I have taken great care of her mother-in-law, and for over 20 years, she has taken care of her husband's illness without any complaints.
You left me."
Then one day I looked out the window and watched the rain fall, and without realizing it,
"Oh my! Honey, look at the rain.
Your favorite rain is coming."
' she said, looking back and realizing that she didn't have a husband, her longing for her husband flooded in.
And I missed my husband, who was always silent and silent. Left alone in an empty space, engraving the loneliness,
"Isn't a husband the person who does what to her wife, but the eternal companion in life that she is grateful for just by being by her side?"
The interview ended with a confession.
Once upon a time there was a husband who was blunt and stubborn. But her wife was pretty, kind, and amiable, so her kind words and deeds did not match her husband's authoritarian stubbornness.
It used to mask her blunt unkindness.
One day, her wife called her husband and asked her to stop by her shop on the way home from work and buy her some tofu. Afraid of her words, how did her husband hold such a bag to fit the man?
She hung up her phone with a burst of anger.
But that very evening, while her wife went to her store and bought her tofu, she was hit by a drunk-driving car and lost her life.
As soon as she heard of her accident, her husband rushed to the hospital, but her wife
She already had her chill corpse.
The husband looked at her wife's belongings and found crushed tofu in a black bag.
Then she realized that her wife's death was her fault, and her heart ached as if she was so apologetic, and her sorrow and regret came rushing in at the same time.
As doctors confirmed her death, the reporter took off her white veil, revealing her wife's bloody face.
As her husband stroked her wife's face, hot tears welled up from her chest, and the husband stopped crying and calling out to her wife.
As the sadness subsided a little, the husband, for the first time in his life, took his wife's cold hand and said something he had never said in his life.
"Honey! I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry I made you go first because of me.
When we meet again, you will become a blunt wife and I will become a gentle husband, and then I will treat you like a queen..."
From that day on, my husband could not eat tofu in any restaurant he went to.
He wants someone who is good to him
Don't neglect it.
living one lifetime
It is not easy to meet such a person.
If you miss a taxi, you just have to wait.
If you miss one, it is difficult to find any more.
Even if disagreements or hurtful things happen, and even if we sometimes hurt each other by nagging and sometimes getting angry, if a husband and wife are next to each other, that is a happy family.
Could it be that itself?
A person cannot live without regrets in life, but
If there is a way to live with as little regrets as possible
It is to practice the saying 'do good when you have it'.
This means to myself and to the present.
is to do your best
To do that today,
This is the time to do your best right now.
than the person you want to see
love the person you are looking at,
than what I want to do
Focus on what you are doing right now
rather than future time
Do your best in the present moment
this is wisdom
It's about taking good care of yourself for the rest of your life.
By always reflecting and examining all of this
This is the wisdom and answer of 'do good when you are there'.
In order to become a partner in your life without hesitation, please be sure to convey these words to each other first, not who comes first.
"I am so grateful and happy that you are by my side."
I hope that you will spend the rest of your life together with love and consideration for each other when you are next to each other.