성격차이 알고 결혼한 사례가 있나요? [펌 : 네이트판 판 톡톡- 남자들끼리만]

<p><span style="color: rgb(48, 48, 48); font-family: 굴림, Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">안녕하세요. 30대 초반 남자 입니다. </span></p><div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(48, 48, 48); font-family: 굴림, Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">만나고 있는 여자는 1살 많구요, 교제한지는 만 1년 10개월 입니다. </div><div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(48, 48, 48); font-family: 굴림, Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="font-size: 10pt; line-height: 1.5;">결혼 이야기가 오고 가는 도중에 <u>서로의 </u></span><span style="font-size: 13.3333px; line-height: 1.5;"><u>성격차이가 있음을 인정하고 알게 되었습니다. </u></span></div><div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(48, 48, 48); font-family: 굴림, Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br></div><div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(48, 48, 48); font-family: 굴림, Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><b>남자: 저는 막내아들로 말이 많고 이기적인 편입니다. </b></div><div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(48, 48, 48); font-family: 굴림, Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><b>여자: 여자친구는 외동딸로 말이 없고 답답한 편입니다. </b></div><div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(48, 48, 48); font-family: 굴림, Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br></div><div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(48, 48, 48); font-family: 굴림, Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">서로의 단점이 엮여서 싸울때가 종종 있지만, 전체적으로 두사람은 서로 좋아하고, </div><div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(48, 48, 48); font-family: 굴림, Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">결혼 생각도 있고 본성은 착합니다. </div><div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(48, 48, 48); font-family: 굴림, Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br></div><div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(48, 48, 48); font-family: 굴림, Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">그래도 <font color="#f4505a"><b>결혼하고 잘 살 수 있을까요? </b></font></div><div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(48, 48, 48); font-family: 굴림, Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">장점도 있지만, 저 성격적인 부분은 바꾸기 힘들다고 하잖아요. </div><div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(48, 48, 48); font-family: 굴림, Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">보통 이혼 사유도 성격차이라고 하던데.. </div><div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(48, 48, 48); font-family: 굴림, Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br></div><div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(48, 48, 48); font-family: 굴림, Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">극복하고 결혼한 사례가 있을까요? </div><div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(48, 48, 48); font-family: 굴림, Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">그래도 본성이 착하니 잘 살수 있겠죠?? ㅠㅠ</div><div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(48, 48, 48); font-family: 굴림, Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br></div><div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(48, 48, 48); font-family: 굴림, Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">많은 분들 꼭 답변 남겨주세요. </div><div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(48, 48, 48); font-family: 굴림, Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">끝까지 읽으셨다면 꼭이요!!</div><div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(48, 48, 48); font-family: 굴림, Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13.3333px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br></div><div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><div style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><font color="#303030" face="굴림, Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif"><span style="font-size: 13.3333px;"><br></span></font></div><div style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 26em; padding: 0px;"><font color="#303030" face="굴림, Gulim, Helvetica, sans-serif"><span style="font-size: 13.3333px;">[출처 : 네이트판 판 톡톡 / 남자들끼리만]</span></font></div><div style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 26em; padding: 0px;"><br></div></div><dl class="cmt_item " id="content_area_dl_441173380" style="margin: 0px; padding: 20px 17px 16px 16px; clear: both; width: 586px; border-top: 1px solid rgb(222, 222, 222); position: relative; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-family: 돋움, dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><dt style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; float: left; z-index: 1;"> <span class="nameui" title="네모" style="font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; vertical-align: middle; color: rgb(72, 104, 143) !important;">네모</span> <span style="font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-stretch: normal; font-size: 11px; line-height: normal; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-left: 10px; color: rgb(170, 170, 170);">2016.05.17 15:36</span></dt><dd class="opinion" style="margin: 0px; padding: 2px 0px 0px; float: right; line-height: 1 !important;"><dl style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; float: left; line-height: 1;"><dt class="good" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline; background: 0px -582px;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="추천" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 10px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -582px no-repeat;">추천</a></dt><dd id="R_cnt_441173380" name="R_cnt_441173380" class="n_good" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px 1px 0px 0px; float: left; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; color: rgb(244, 26, 10);">0</dd><dt class="bad" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="반대" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 10px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -614px no-repeat;">반대</a></dt><dd id="O_cnt_441173380" name="O_cnt_441173380" class="n_bad" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px 1px 0px 0px; float: left; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; color: rgb(127, 153, 163);">0</dd><dt class="report" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="신고 (새창으로 이동)" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 9px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -650px no-repeat;">신고 (새창으로 이동)</a></dt></dl></dd><dd id="content_area_441173380" class="usertxt" style="margin: 0px; padding: 7px 0px 15px; clear: both; width: 585px; color: rgb(67, 67, 67); line-height: 1.5; word-break: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word;">결혼을해보니 본성이 착한걸로 해결 되지 않는 부분들이 많아요 이기적이라는 성격으로 자신을 소개한다고 하면 개성도 강하실것 같은데 그러면 좀 더 만나보고 다시 결혼에 대한 확신이 들때 다시 결혼 생각을 해보셔요.</dd><dd id="children_dd_441173380" class="reples" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; clear: both; width: 586px; zoom: 1; min-height: 16px;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" class="cmtsum hide" style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); zoom: 1; padding-right: 22px; margin: 0px 6px 0px 0px; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 100% -678px no-repeat; display: inline-block !important;">답글 <span style="color: rgb(232, 42, 30);">0</span>개</a> <a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" class="cmt_w" style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153);">답글쓰기</a></dd></dl><dl class="cmt_item " id="content_area_dl_440910822" style="margin: 0px; padding: 20px 17px 16px 16px; clear: both; width: 586px; border-top: 1px solid rgb(222, 222, 222); position: relative; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-family: 돋움, dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><dt style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; float: left; z-index: 1;"><span class="nameui" title="허허러허" style="font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; vertical-align: middle; color: rgb(72, 104, 143) !important;">허허러허</span> <span style="font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-stretch: normal; font-size: 11px; line-height: normal; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-left: 10px; color: rgb(170, 170, 170);">2016.05.12 13:30</span></dt><dd class="opinion" style="margin: 0px; padding: 2px 0px 0px; float: right; line-height: 1 !important;"><dl style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; float: left; line-height: 1;"><dt class="good" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline; background: 0px -582px;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="추천" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 10px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -582px no-repeat;">추천</a></dt><dd id="R_cnt_440910822" name="R_cnt_440910822" class="n_good" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px 1px 0px 0px; float: left; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; color: rgb(244, 26, 10);">0</dd><dt class="bad" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="반대" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 10px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -614px no-repeat;">반대</a></dt><dd id="O_cnt_440910822" name="O_cnt_440910822" class="n_bad" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px 1px 0px 0px; float: left; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; color: rgb(127, 153, 163);">0</dd><dt class="report" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="신고 (새창으로 이동)" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 9px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -650px no-repeat;">신고 (새창으로 이동)</a></dt></dl></dd><dd id="content_area_440910822" class="usertxt" style="margin: 0px; padding: 7px 0px 15px; clear: both; width: 585px; color: rgb(67, 67, 67); line-height: 1.5; word-break: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word;">전 올해 27되는 기혼자 동생입니다. <br>미약하게나마 제 조언이 도움이 된다면 <br>본인 : 외동아들, 생각이 많음, 계획적, 이기적<br>아내 : 외동딸, 정많음, 이기적, 즉흥적<br>둘다 말 많음 생활력 없음.<br>그래도 서로 행복해하면서 잘살고 있다 자부합니다.<br>서로 이해하려 노력한다면 그 애뜻함에 더욱 사랑이 깊어지더라구요</dd><dd id="children_dd_440910822" class="reples" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; clear: both; width: 586px; zoom: 1; min-height: 16px;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" class="cmtsum hide" style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); zoom: 1; padding-right: 22px; margin: 0px 6px 0px 0px; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 100% -678px no-repeat; display: inline-block !important;">답글 <span style="color: rgb(232, 42, 30);">0</span>개</a> <a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" class="cmt_w" style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153);">답글쓰기</a></dd></dl><dl class="cmt_item " id="content_area_dl_440853952" style="margin: 0px; padding: 20px 17px 16px 16px; clear: both; width: 586px; border-top: 1px solid rgb(222, 222, 222); position: relative; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-family: 돋움, dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><dt style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; float: left; z-index: 1;"><span class="nameui" title="ㅇㅇ" style="font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; vertical-align: middle; color: rgb(72, 104, 143) !important;">ㅇㅇ</span> <span style="font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-stretch: normal; font-size: 11px; line-height: normal; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-left: 10px; color: rgb(170, 170, 170);">2016.05.11 04:15</span></dt><dd class="opinion" style="margin: 0px; padding: 2px 0px 0px; float: right; line-height: 1 !important;"><dl style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; float: left; line-height: 1;"><dt class="good" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline; background: 0px -582px;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="추천" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 10px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -582px no-repeat;">추천</a></dt><dd id="R_cnt_440853952" name="R_cnt_440853952" class="n_good" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px 1px 0px 0px; float: left; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; color: rgb(244, 26, 10);">0</dd><dt class="bad" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="반대" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 10px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -614px no-repeat;">반대</a></dt><dd id="O_cnt_440853952" name="O_cnt_440853952" class="n_bad" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px 1px 0px 0px; float: left; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; color: rgb(127, 153, 163);">0</dd><dt class="report" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="신고 (새창으로 이동)" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 9px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -650px no-repeat;">신고 (새창으로 이동)</a></dt></dl></dd><dd id="content_area_440853952" class="usertxt" style="margin: 0px; padding: 7px 0px 15px; clear: both; width: 585px; color: rgb(67, 67, 67); line-height: 1.5; word-break: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word;">여기보면 안싸우고 잘사는게 이상한겁니다</dd><dd id="children_dd_440853952" class="reples" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; clear: both; width: 586px; zoom: 1; min-height: 16px;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" class="cmtsum hide" style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); zoom: 1; padding-right: 22px; margin: 0px 6px 0px 0px; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 100% -678px no-repeat; display: inline-block !important;">답글 <span style="color: rgb(232, 42, 30);">0</span>개</a> <a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" class="cmt_w" style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153);">답글쓰기</a></dd></dl><dl class="cmt_item " id="content_area_dl_440351556" style="margin: 0px; padding: 20px 17px 16px 16px; clear: both; width: 586px; border-top: 1px solid rgb(222, 222, 222); position: relative; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-family: 돋움, dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><dt style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; float: left; z-index: 1;"><span class="nameui" title="판은처음" style="font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; vertical-align: middle; color: rgb(72, 104, 143) !important;">판은처음</span> <span style="font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-stretch: normal; font-size: 11px; line-height: normal; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-left: 10px; color: rgb(170, 170, 170);">2016.05.04 11:20</span></dt><dd class="opinion" style="margin: 0px; padding: 2px 0px 0px; float: right; line-height: 1 !important;"><dl style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; float: left; line-height: 1;"><dt class="good" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline; background: 0px -582px;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="추천" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 10px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -582px no-repeat;">추천</a></dt><dd id="R_cnt_440351556" name="R_cnt_440351556" class="n_good" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px 1px 0px 0px; float: left; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; color: rgb(244, 26, 10);">2</dd><dt class="bad" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="반대" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 10px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -614px no-repeat;">반대</a></dt><dd id="O_cnt_440351556" name="O_cnt_440351556" class="n_bad" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px 1px 0px 0px; float: left; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; color: rgb(127, 153, 163);">0</dd><dt class="report" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="신고 (새창으로 이동)" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 9px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -650px no-repeat;">신고 (새창으로 이동)</a></dt></dl></dd><dd id="content_area_440351556" class="usertxt" style="margin: 0px; padding: 7px 0px 15px; clear: both; width: 585px; color: rgb(67, 67, 67); line-height: 1.5; word-break: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word;">남녀가 당연히 성격차이가 나지요. 성격맞아 사는 남녀가 어딨습니까??<br>형제분들이나 부모님과는 성격이 잘 맞으신가요? 아마 자신의 클론을 만들어도 안맞는 부분은 안맞게 됩니다. <br>결혼을 하거나, 연애를 하거나 성격차이를 문제시하는 사람들이 많은데, 그건 자신의 책임감과 상대에 대한 배려를 외면한 핑계일 뿐입니다. 자신이 이기적이란걸 스스로 잘 알고 있으시면 고치세요. 노력이라도 하시란 말입니다. 자신보다 더 소중하게 배우자를 대할 생각이 없다면 결혼하지 마세요. 죽을때까지 찾아보세요. 성격맞는 여자 구할 수 있는지. 아마 쓰니님을 맞춰주는 여잔 구할 수 있겠지요. 그렇게 해서는 좋은 엔딩 못볼겁니다.</dd><dd id="children_dd_440351556" class="reples" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; clear: both; width: 586px; zoom: 1; min-height: 16px;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" class="cmtsum hide" style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); zoom: 1; padding-right: 22px; margin: 0px 6px 0px 0px; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 100% -678px no-repeat; display: inline-block !important;">답글 <span style="color: rgb(232, 42, 30);">1</span>개</a> <a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" class="cmt_w" style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153);">답글쓰기</a></dd></dl><dl class="cmt_item " id="content_area_dl_440348608" style="margin: 0px; padding: 20px 17px 16px 16px; clear: both; width: 586px; border-top: 1px solid rgb(222, 222, 222); position: relative; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-family: 돋움, dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><dt style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; float: left; z-index: 1;"><span class="gender female" style="position: relative; top: -3px; display: inline-block; width: 16px; height: 19px; background: url("../img/common/ico_gender.png") 0px -25px no-repeat; text-indent: -999em;">여자</span> <span class="nameui" title="dlrkd" style="font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; vertical-align: middle; color: rgb(72, 104, 143) !important;">dlrkd</span> <span style="font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-stretch: normal; font-size: 11px; line-height: normal; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-left: 10px; color: rgb(170, 170, 170);">2016.05.04 09:42</span></dt><dd class="opinion" style="margin: 0px; padding: 2px 0px 0px; float: right; line-height: 1 !important;"><dl style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; float: left; line-height: 1;"><dt class="good" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline; background: 0px -582px;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="추천" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 10px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -582px no-repeat;">추천</a></dt><dd id="R_cnt_440348608" name="R_cnt_440348608" class="n_good" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px 1px 0px 0px; float: left; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; color: rgb(244, 26, 10);">1</dd><dt class="bad" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="반대" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 10px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -614px no-repeat;">반대</a></dt><dd id="O_cnt_440348608" name="O_cnt_440348608" class="n_bad" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px 1px 0px 0px; float: left; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; color: rgb(127, 153, 163);">0</dd><dt class="report" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="신고 (새창으로 이동)" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 9px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -650px no-repeat;">신고 (새창으로 이동)</a></dt></dl></dd><dd id="content_area_440348608" class="usertxt" style="margin: 0px; padding: 7px 0px 15px; clear: both; width: 585px; color: rgb(67, 67, 67); line-height: 1.5; word-break: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word;">똑같은 사람은...살기 힘들지 않을까? 하는 생각을 해요~ 더욱더 부딪히지 않을까??^^;; 저는 제 신랑과 식성과 성격 모든게 다 달라요. 원래 처음엔...티격태격해요. 맞춰가느라고~익숙해져가는 과정? 2~3년 지나니~ 싸움도 없어지고... 오히려 성격이 정반대라서... 가정이 굴러가는 듯 해요. 입맛도 정반대로 반찬도 다채롭게 먹을 수 있고... 단!! 결혼생활에서 제일 중요한것은 내 것을 강요하는 것은 절대 안되요!! 상대방과 내가 다름을 이해하는 것! 그리고 내가 조금 불편하다면 내가 사랑하는 사람이 행복하다는 거래요~ 내가 무언가를 이사람보다 손해보는 것 같아서 불편하고 화가날게 아니라~ 내가 조금 불편한 만큼 내가 사랑하는 사람이 행복하구나! 하고 생각하는 마음!! 그 두가지~ 가 제일 중요한것 같아요~^^ 행복하세요</dd><dd id="children_dd_440348608" class="reples" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; clear: both; width: 586px; zoom: 1; min-height: 16px;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" class="cmtsum hide" style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); zoom: 1; padding-right: 22px; margin: 0px 6px 0px 0px; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 100% -678px no-repeat; display: inline-block !important;">답글 <span style="color: rgb(232, 42, 30);">0</span>개</a> <a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" class="cmt_w" style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153);">답글쓰기</a></dd></dl><dl class="cmt_item " id="content_area_dl_440315491" style="margin: 0px; padding: 20px 17px 16px 16px; clear: both; width: 586px; border-top: 1px solid rgb(222, 222, 222); position: relative; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-family: 돋움, dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><dt style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; float: left; z-index: 1;"><span class="gender female" style="position: relative; top: -3px; display: inline-block; width: 16px; height: 19px; background: url("../img/common/ico_gender.png") 0px -25px no-repeat; text-indent: -999em;">여자</span> <span class="nameui" title="ㅡㅡㅡ" style="font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; vertical-align: middle; color: rgb(72, 104, 143) !important;">ㅡㅡㅡ</span> <span style="font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-stretch: normal; font-size: 11px; line-height: normal; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-left: 10px; color: rgb(170, 170, 170);">2016.05.03 21:54</span></dt><dd class="opinion" style="margin: 0px; padding: 2px 0px 0px; float: right; line-height: 1 !important;"><dl style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; float: left; line-height: 1;"><dt class="good" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline; background: 0px -582px;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="추천" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 10px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -582px no-repeat;">추천</a></dt><dd id="R_cnt_440315491" name="R_cnt_440315491" class="n_good" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px 1px 0px 0px; float: left; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; color: rgb(244, 26, 10);">0</dd><dt class="bad" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="반대" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 10px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -614px no-repeat;">반대</a></dt><dd id="O_cnt_440315491" name="O_cnt_440315491" class="n_bad" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px 1px 0px 0px; float: left; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; color: rgb(127, 153, 163);">0</dd><dt class="report" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="신고 (새창으로 이동)" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 9px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -650px no-repeat;">신고 (새창으로 이동)</a></dt></dl></dd><dd id="content_area_440315491" class="usertxt" style="margin: 0px; padding: 7px 0px 15px; clear: both; width: 585px; color: rgb(67, 67, 67); line-height: 1.5; word-break: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word;"><img class="mobileRe" alt="모바일로 남긴 댓글" src="https://img1.daumcdn.net/relay/cafe/original/?fname=https%3A%2F%2Fpann.nate.com%2Fimg%2Fcommon%2Fico_mobile.gif" style="border: 0px; vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; margin: 0px 1px 2px 0px;"> 전아직 결혼은 안햇지만 몇번의 연애경험만으로만 얘기해도 누굴만나도 다 맞는 사람은 없는거 같아요 정말 최악아님 서로 이해와 배려로 살면 될꺼 같아요 본성이 착하다면 서로 대화해가면서 맞춰가면서 살아요</dd><dd id="children_dd_440315491" class="reples" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; clear: both; width: 586px; zoom: 1; min-height: 16px;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" class="cmtsum hide" style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); zoom: 1; padding-right: 22px; margin: 0px 6px 0px 0px; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 100% -678px no-repeat; display: inline-block !important;">답글 <span style="color: rgb(232, 42, 30);">0</span>개</a> <a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" class="cmt_w" style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153);">답글쓰기</a></dd></dl><dl class="cmt_item " id="content_area_dl_440304199" style="margin: 0px; padding: 20px 17px 16px 16px; clear: both; width: 586px; border-top: 1px solid rgb(222, 222, 222); position: relative; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-family: 돋움, dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><dt style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; float: left; z-index: 1;"><span class="gender female" style="position: relative; top: -3px; display: inline-block; width: 16px; height: 19px; background: url("../img/common/ico_gender.png") 0px -25px no-repeat; text-indent: -999em;">여자</span> <span class="nameui" title="ㅇ" style="font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; vertical-align: middle; color: rgb(72, 104, 143) !important;">ㅇ</span> <span style="font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-stretch: normal; font-size: 11px; line-height: normal; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-left: 10px; color: rgb(170, 170, 170);">2016.05.03 19:31</span></dt><dd class="opinion" style="margin: 0px; padding: 2px 0px 0px; float: right; line-height: 1 !important;"><dl style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; float: left; line-height: 1;"><dt class="good" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline; background: 0px -582px;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="추천" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 10px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -582px no-repeat;">추천</a></dt><dd id="R_cnt_440304199" name="R_cnt_440304199" class="n_good" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px 1px 0px 0px; float: left; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; color: rgb(244, 26, 10);">0</dd><dt class="bad" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="반대" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 10px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -614px no-repeat;">반대</a></dt><dd id="O_cnt_440304199" name="O_cnt_440304199" class="n_bad" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px 1px 0px 0px; float: left; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; color: rgb(127, 153, 163);">0</dd><dt class="report" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="신고 (새창으로 이동)" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 9px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -650px no-repeat;">신고 (새창으로 이동)</a></dt></dl></dd><dd id="content_area_440304199" class="usertxt" style="margin: 0px; padding: 7px 0px 15px; clear: both; width: 585px; color: rgb(67, 67, 67); line-height: 1.5; word-break: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word;"><img class="mobileRe" alt="모바일로 남긴 댓글" src="https://img1.daumcdn.net/relay/cafe/original/?fname=https%3A%2F%2Fpann.nate.com%2Fimg%2Fcommon%2Fico_mobile.gif" style="border: 0px; vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; margin: 0px 1px 2px 0px;"> 성격이 똑같은 사람이면 잘살고 다르면 못살고 그러진 않아요 오히려 모자른 부분을 채워줄수도잇고요 서로 이해하는 마음과 양보하는게 제일 큰 것이라 생각합니다 전 그 생각으로 결혼햇습니다 연애만 스무번 해봣지만 성격 똑같아도 알면서 왜그러냐고 싸우고 달라도 넌 왜그러는지모르겟다고 싸우고 ㆍ 지금 배우자는 싸우면 나중에 대화하며 이런점미안하다 하며 한발짝 서로 물러나고 하는게 느껴져서 결혼 햇습니다 결혼한지 별로안돼서 확신은 아니고 제생각 말씀 드립니다</dd><dd id="children_dd_440304199" class="reples" style="margin: 0px; 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width: 16px; height: 19px; background: url("../img/common/ico_gender.png") 0px -25px no-repeat; text-indent: -999em;">여자</span> <span class="nameui" title="ㅇㅇ" style="font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; vertical-align: middle; color: rgb(72, 104, 143) !important;">ㅇㅇ</span> <span style="font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-stretch: normal; font-size: 11px; line-height: normal; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-left: 10px; color: rgb(170, 170, 170);">2016.05.03 14:50</span></dt><dd class="opinion" style="margin: 0px; padding: 2px 0px 0px; float: right; line-height: 1 !important;"><dl style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; float: left; line-height: 1;"><dt class="good" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline; background: 0px -582px;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="추천" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 10px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -582px no-repeat;">추천</a></dt><dd id="R_cnt_440288494" name="R_cnt_440288494" class="n_good" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px 1px 0px 0px; float: left; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; color: rgb(244, 26, 10);">0</dd><dt class="bad" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="반대" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 10px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -614px no-repeat;">반대</a></dt><dd id="O_cnt_440288494" name="O_cnt_440288494" class="n_bad" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px 1px 0px 0px; float: left; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; color: rgb(127, 153, 163);">0</dd><dt class="report" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="신고 (새창으로 이동)" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 9px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -650px no-repeat;">신고 (새창으로 이동)</a></dt></dl></dd><dd id="content_area_440288494" class="usertxt" style="margin: 0px; padding: 7px 0px 15px; clear: both; width: 585px; color: rgb(67, 67, 67); line-height: 1.5; word-break: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word;">성격차이없는사람이 어디있겠음..<br>같은부모밑에서 큰 자식도 서로다른경우가많은데<br>서로다른환경 다른가정에서 커온 사람이 만났는데<br>몇년만에 바뀔수있을리도없고..<br>어떻게 현명하게 해결해나가는가 싸우는것도 현명하게하는가<br>그런게 중요한거같음..</dd><dd id="children_dd_440288494" class="reples" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; clear: both; width: 586px; zoom: 1; min-height: 16px;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" class="cmtsum hide" style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); zoom: 1; padding-right: 22px; margin: 0px 6px 0px 0px; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 100% -678px no-repeat; display: inline-block !important;">답글 <span style="color: rgb(232, 42, 30);">0</span>개</a> <a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" class="cmt_w" style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153);">답글쓰기</a></dd></dl><dl class="cmt_item " id="content_area_dl_440270156" style="margin: 0px; padding: 20px 17px 16px 16px; clear: both; width: 586px; border-top: 1px solid rgb(222, 222, 222); position: relative; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><dt style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-family: 돋움, dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; float: left; z-index: 1;"><span class="nameui" title="헐헐헐헐" style="font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; vertical-align: middle; color: rgb(72, 104, 143) !important;">헐헐헐헐</span> <span style="font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-stretch: normal; font-size: 11px; line-height: normal; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-left: 10px; color: rgb(170, 170, 170);">2016.05.03 04:35</span></dt><dd class="opinion" style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-family: 돋움, dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin: 0px; padding: 2px 0px 0px; float: right; line-height: 1 !important;"><dl style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; float: left; line-height: 1;"><dt class="good" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline; background: 0px -582px;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="추천" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 10px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -582px no-repeat;">추천</a></dt><dd id="R_cnt_440270156" name="R_cnt_440270156" class="n_good" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px 1px 0px 0px; float: left; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; color: rgb(244, 26, 10);">0</dd><dt class="bad" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="반대" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 10px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -614px no-repeat;">반대</a></dt><dd id="O_cnt_440270156" name="O_cnt_440270156" class="n_bad" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 4px; padding: 0px 1px 0px 0px; float: left; font-family: 돋움, Dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; color: rgb(127, 153, 163);">0</dd><dt class="report" style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 9px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 11px; position: static; float: left; z-index: 2; display: inline;"><a href="https://pann.nate.com/talk/331423465?page=28#" title="신고 (새창으로 이동)" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); float: left; width: 9px; height: 10px; text-indent: -9999em; overflow: hidden; background: url("../img/common/set_view.png") 0px -650px no-repeat;">신고 (새창으로 이동)</a></dt></dl></dd><dd id="content_area_440270156" class="usertxt" style="color: rgb(67, 67, 67); font-family: 돋움, dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin: 0px; padding: 7px 0px 15px; clear: both; width: 585px; line-height: 1.5; word-break: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word;">형님 성격차이를 형님께서 극복하실수 있으시면 결혼하는거 찬성입니다.<br><br>전 5년 만나고 결국 성격차이땜에 헤어졌습니다.</dd><dd id="content_area_440270156" class="usertxt" style="color: rgb(67, 67, 67); font-family: 돋움, dotum, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin: 0px; padding: 7px 0px 15px; clear: both; width: 585px; line-height: 1.5; word-break: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word;"><br></dd><dd id="content_area_440270156" class="usertxt" style="margin: 0px; padding: 7px 0px 15px; clear: both; width: 585px; line-height: 1.5; word-break: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></dd><dd id="content_area_440270156" class="usertxt" style="margin: 0px; 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