Did we pretend [to be angry about one thing /when we knew, or could have known, that our anger had a different
and much less presentable cause]?
Did we pretend [to be “hurt” in our sensitive and tender feelings…
when envy, ungratified vanity, or thwarted self-will was our real trouble]?
Such tactics often succeed.
The other parties give in.
They give in not because they don’t know [what is really wrong with us]
but because they have long known it only too well…
It needs surgery //which they know () we will never face.
And so we win; by cheating.
But the unfairness is very deeply felt.
Indeed [what is commonly called “sensitiveness”] is the most powerful engine of domestic tyranny,
sometimes a lifelong tyranny.
From Reflections on the Psalms
Compiled in A Mind Awake