<table id=cafe_editor_main_table_color bgColor='#faedd4' cellpadding=0 cellspacing=0 border=0 width=100%><tr><td id=cafe_editor_main_table class=text><P class=MsoNormal style="BACKGROUND: #efefef; MARGIN: 0in 0in 11.25pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 7.5pt; COLOR: #999999; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><FONT size=5><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p><FONT face=Arial color=#000000><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: Batang; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: KO; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">Did you know that we're always communicating? Even when we don't use words, we're always conveying messages whether we intend to or not. <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: Batang; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: KO; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">When I pass someone in the hall at work, I can greet them with a lively "Hey, how's it goin'? Isn't this a great day to be alive? Man, I wish every day could be Monday. <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: Batang; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: KO; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">Unfortunately, many of us <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: Batang; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: KO; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">don't realize this, which often results in mixed signals.</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></FONT></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="BACKGROUND: #efefef; MARGIN: 0in 0in 11.25pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 7.5pt; COLOR: #999999; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><FONT size=5><o:p><FONT face=Arial color=#000000><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: Batang; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: KO; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: Batang; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: KO; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: Batang; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: KO; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: Batang; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: KO; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: Batang; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: KO; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">Two reasons for this miscommunication: fear and trembling, I mean, fear and selfishness.</P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">Fear, because we don't want to be rejected. Selfishness, because we care more about being liked than we do about others' hearts; that is, it makes us feel good when someone likes us, and we don't want to stop it by telling them we don't reciprocate.</SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><o:p><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: Batang; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: KO; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">Relationships may be oversimplified in sitcoms and romantic comedies, but in real life they take a great amount of work, which is a good thing because we'd have a hard time growing otherwise. So guys, let's take the lead in the service of communication.
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