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Topic1. Friends and lovers
Keiko and Akira have been friends for a long time. But something has happened, and they might not be friends any longer. Read the story and find out: What has happened to hurt, and maybe even end, their friendship?
Akira and Keiko leave the university library after several hours of studying together, something they do often. Suddenly, Akira tries to kiss Keiko. Keiko is shocked.
“What are you doing, Akira?” Keiko asks, hardly able to speak.
“You are my best friend. We’ve been friends for five years. You are closer to me than my brother. And now you want to kiss me?”
Akira explains, “I want our friendship to be even closer.”
“No, no, no! I don’t think of you in that way. You’re my friend. Best friends don’t act that way.” Akira looks confused.
“I don’t understand. Don’t you see me as a man?”
“Of course I do,” replies Keiko.
“You’re a handsome man. But you’re a special man… my best friend. So we can’t do this. Now do you understand?”
“No, not at all. Here is how I see it. You’re a woman and I’m a man. We like each other very much. We’re very close. So let’s do what is natural. I thought I understood you. Maybe I was wrong.” cries Keiko.
Akira’s face is red.
“So you really don’t like me at all. You just want someone to talk to.”
He turns and walks quickly away.
Keiko’s anger turns to sadness. In her heart, she thinks Akira is wrong-men and women can be friends without being lovers. But now she’s not sure. What if all men think like Akira?
Q.
1. Can a man and a woman be close friends without being lovers?
Is your best friend a man or a woman?
2. What is your best friend like?
3. Why is that person your best friend?
4. What do you think are the most important ingredients when it comes to being a good friend?
5. Do you fall in love easily?
6. Have you ever regretted not confessing your love?
7. What are some ways to express your love to someone?
8. What does it mean to fall in “love at first sight”? Do you believe in love at first sight
9. Who do you love in your life? Are you seeing someone nowadays?
Topic 2. How to Make Someone Fall in Love with You
You can't make someone fall in love with you because, simply put, you can't control the way someone truly feels. But, you can create a situation in which any inkling of love has the chance to flourish and develop into a deep love.
1: Love yourself. Whether you're goofy, silly, crazy, quirky, smart, reserved, or whatever, how can you expect a person to love you if you feel unlovable? You've got to show this person how awesome you are, but first you need to know how awesome you are. Build up your self confidence. Now, this doesn't mean you have to be loud, boisterous, arrogant, chatty, or forward. It just means getting to a place where you're comfortable in your own skin. You can be secure, sweet and humble all at the same time.
2: Share a good laugh. It's been said that laughter is the sound of love. If you share many laughs together, you're both going to be a lot more receptive to love. However, don't put on a show, or make yourself a clown just to make someone laugh. The best laughs are spontaneous, and result from having a positive attitude towards life.
3: Pace yourself. You might be crazy about this person, but if you want a steady kind of love (rather than a fling that flares and fades quickly) then you're going to need to be patient and take your time. Don't be obsessive or suffocating. Give him or her the time to think about what life could be like with you by their side. You can't force someone to love you, and trying to hurry things up can ruin the courtship altogether. Let things progress at a natural pace, or fade out of natural causes.
4: Get to know the person inside out. Always be accepting and open-minded. He or she will sense this and feel like you're the only person who truly knows them and thus, the only person they can be their uninhibited selves around.
Warnings
Before trying this exercise, take a good look at the person you will be trying this technique with. You will want a person of good character, with good morals, who will be receptive to you as a human being.
Be selective, this is really an exercise for you and about you gaining more control over your love life and life in general. Use good judgment when practicing this technique.
There's always a chance your heart will be broken.
If that person is mean to you and you like that person you have little chance.
Q.
1. Among these tips, what is the most effective way?
2. Except appearance, what are attractive factor??
3. Have you ever ruin good friendship because of "fall in love"?
4. Do you believe in Fate ?
5. We can see some people who are really good at relationships, what is the common factor of them?
6. Do you love your family? how about your brothers and sisters.
Which do you want to have better between sister or brother that you can choose?
7. What do you think of cohabitation before wedding?
8. What are you going to do if your G.F/B.F want to do plastic surgery
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