The Effect of Birth Order on Personality
First-borns, especially first-born sons, like to be described as successful, conscientious and tough-minded. They are natural leaders who tend to gravitate toward jobs where these qualities are useful: bishop, general, dean, chief executive officer, supervisor, king. First-borns like any kind of job where the word first, head, senior or chief is part of the title. An inordinate number of prime ministers, presidents and dictators are first-born sons.
Is it any surprise in a world owned and operated by eldest boys that we don"t hear much about the flip side of the first-born: little adjectives like controlling, conventional, vengeful? Some people would say that first-borns are not much given to ever admitting mistakes or trying new things.
Neither do we hear a lot about the many attributes of middle or youngest children. Middle children, given short shrift by elder siblings as lacking ambition, are adept at mediation and innovation. They often hold families together socially or emotionally. They possess a gift for empathy. This is no wonder since they get lots of practice at being boss and being bossed.
Later children score higher on measures of creativity, and are more popular with other kids. And youngest siblings, while maligned for being indulged, have an aptitude for carving out a comfy niche for themselves in the family.
In that niche, little sisters form a cozily subversive subset. Little sisters must be as persistent as mosquitoes. Little sisters don"t usually get to steer the boat, sit up front, get the top bunk or be a sixer in Brownies. Being a little sister of a big sister is a special kind of torment. My own sister was almost a teenager when I was born and, therefore, was serene and secure in her superiority. As to my brother, who"s two years older, I have come to understand that he was only trying to teach me courage when he pushed me down the hill on the bike with no brakes.
1. What is your birth order in your family and are you satisfied in your birth order? Do you think it affects your personality ?
2. Do you think the first-born son should take care of his parents ?
(Let"s discuss about the obligations about the first-born sons.)
3. Are you going to consider about the birth order when you choose your spouse?
(There are some youngsters who are reluctant to marry a first-born son or a first-born daughter, especially first-born son.)
4. Do your parents advise you not to marry a first-born son, or a girl?
(Tell us about you and your parent"s prejudice about the birth order. Parents sometimes may show their favoritism to a certain child)
5. Do you know, or did you hear any cases around you that the first-born son or a daughter became famous or rich since they are the eldest ?
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