★ 잊히지 않는 소중(所重, precious)한 인연(因緣, connection)

★ 잊히지 않는 소중(所重, precious)한 인연(因緣, connection)(an unforgettable relationship) ★ 사람의 관계란 우연(偶然, coincidence)히 만나 관심을 가지면 인연(因緣, match)이 되고 공을 들이 면 필연(必然, inevitable) 이 됩니다.(Relationships become fate when you meet by chance and are interested, and inevitable when you work hard.) 세 번 만나면 관심이 생기고 다섯 번 만 나면 마음의 문이 열 리고 일곱 번 만나야 친밀감(親密感, sense of closeness)이  생깁니다.(If you meet three times, you become interested, and if you meet five times, you open the door of your heart, and if you meet seven times, you become intimate.) 우리는 좋은 사람으로 만나 착한 사람으로 헤어져 그리운 사람으로 남아야 합니다. (We should meet as good people and break up as good people and remain as missing people.) 사람은 만나봐야 그 사람을 알고 사랑은 나눠봐야 그 사랑의 진실 을 알 수 있습니다.(A person must meet to know the person, and love must be shared to know the truth of the love.) 꼭 쥐고 있어야 내 것이 되는  인연은 진짜 내 인연이 아닙니다. (The relationship that you have to hold onto to become mine is not really my destiny.) 잠깐 놓았는데도 내 곁에 머무는  사람이 진짜 내 사람입니다. (The person who stays with me even though I put it for a while is really my person.) 얼굴이 먼저 떠 오르면 보고 싶 은  사람 이름이 먼저 떠 오르면 잊을 수 없는 사람.(If your face comes to mind first, the person you want to see first, the person you can't forget.) 눈을 감고 생각나는 사람은 그리 운 사람. 눈을 뜨고도 생각나는 사람은 아픔을 준 사람.(I miss people who close my eyes and think of them. The person who opened his eyes and remembered is the person who gave him pain.) 외로움은 누군가가 채워줄 수 있 지만 그리움은 그 사람이 아니면  채울 수 없습니다.(Loneliness can be filled by someone, but longing can't be filled by someone else.) 정말 소중한 사람이라면 늘 배려(配慮, consideration) 해 주고 따뜻하게 속에 대해주면 시간의 흐름 속에 잊히지 않는 소중한 인연(所重한 因緣, a precious connection)으로 곁에 남 을 것입니다.(If you are a really precious person, if you always care and treat them warmly, they will remain next to you as a precious relationship that will not be forgotten in the passage of time.) = 華谷·孝菴의 좋은글 中에서 =