As I always write in my columns, I wish I could have a 'SPECTRUM' of netizens' reaction. Don't get me wrong; I could fully understand what you've said. But just give him/her the benefit of the doubt. Don't expect too much of others including me; however, we feel totally assured that we just try to do the right thing as always. This is the bottom line. All I can say is try to exhaust all the measures. Don't fuel speculation, please. Just put faith in others' feelings as well as expressions.
Please cool down a little bit. I don't want to say to you, "Cool your porridge." Just sit back and let things take care of themselves; therefore, you can see the moment of truth coming before long. Thank you for your writing. I can find that you plucked up courage to post yours. Anyway, your writing is kind of sarcastic, I think. I don't think I've gone too far. :D
In disputation, the adversary who is refuted by a dilemma is said to be "Fixed on the horns of a dilemma". Sometimes, dichotomy looks apparent and outstanding. I hope you and the people involved can meet each other the halfway; let's see how the cat jumps. That's life. That's the way cookie crumbles. That's the way we roll.
P.S.: TTL is a pseudo Enlgish expression; "That's The Life." is not correct in English. I'm pretty sure that you've already got it, huh?