Chapter Three - 2. Men and Women Are Born for Each Other

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2. Men and Women Are Born for Each Other

For what purpose is a man born? He is born for the sake of a woman. This fact cannot be denied. Likewise, a woman is not born for her own sake, but for the sake of a man. A woman who does not come to a clear understanding within herself that she is born for the sake of a man will encounter problems in her life.

God, the Great Administrator of heaven and earth, established this principle within His Principle of Creation. We cannot enter the world of goodness, truth, happiness and peace, or the world of love and ideal, unless we follow this principle. (Blessed Families and the Ideal Kingdom, vol. I, 338, 1975.1.16)

Every woman is born to one day join with a man, and every man is born to join with a woman. This is the highest truth. By following this principle we can find the realm of blessing. Deviating from this highest truth constitutes the highest evil. (21-201, 1968.11.20)

Men and women are physically opposite. While women tend to focus on one area of life, men often work in three or four arenas at the same time. Women are more likely to enjoy staying at home, and men are more likely to enjoy traveling the world. Their characters are opposite as well, with men ordinarily more subjective and women more responsive. How can these opposites become one? They can become one through love. Love also brings human beings and God into oneness. (38-255, 1971.1.8)

Why is a man born? He is not born to earn money, gain political power, or pursue academic learning. He is born for the sake of a woman. Men have larger physiques for earning a living not for themselves, but to support the wife and children. A man’s sexual organ and a woman’s sexual organ are different. For whom do they exist?

A man’s sexual organ does not exist for his own satisfaction. It exists for the sake of a woman. Likewise, a woman’s sexual organ exists for the sake of a man. Have you ever thought this way? This is not something to laugh about and then forget. (143-275, 1986.3.20)

What is the symbol of the love between man and woman? Where is their love consummated? It is their sexual organs, by which they become one flesh. When the man and woman love each other, their sexual organs become the channels through which their minds and bodies completely merge.

The man’s sexual organ is not his, and woman’s is not hers. The man has what belongs to the woman, and the woman has what belongs to the man. Men and women are not born for their own sake. They should know clearly that they are born for the sake of their partner. (132-146, 1984.5.31)

What are men and women born to do while living on earth? They are born to love each other. For this reason, God, the Great King of Wisdom, switched the ownership of their love organs. A man has a sexual organ, but that does not mean he is its owner. The same is true for woman.

Those who act carelessly, employing their sexual organ with no regard for its ownership, will be judged for having violated love. If men knew that they will face a dreadful punishment according to this strictest of laws, how could they dare think about other women instead of their own wives? Conversely, how could wives think about other men besides their own husbands? (Blessed Families and the Ideal Kingdom, vol. I, 340, 1986.3.14)

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