Saturday, Jan. 7, 2009 Cloudy
Paternity
At long last, my older son went to school after the winter vacation. Today was second day after the winter vacation. After he went to school, I, my husband and younger son enjoyed sleeping more and had breakfast late. Of course, my older son had had breakfast much earlier than we had.
After breakfast, I washed the dishes while my husband and younger son played. My husband hugged my younger son and raised the son up to the ceiling. “June, do whatever you want to do,” he whispered while kissing the son on the cheek and patting the son on the butt.
I wondered what he meant. So I asked, “You mean June would rather not get married, right?” He said, “I didn’t mean it. Just what I wanted to say is …. Well, why do you say like that?”
My husband often tells his two sons that he lives and works because of responsibility for his two sons. Why does not he live for himself? If he had not his two sons, would his life be meaningless? Or does he mean that I should make a living behalf of him? Whenever I hear of it, it makes me uncomfortable and I’m confused.
I know that he has sacrificed his mental and physical health to make ends meet after his marriage. He has just worked day and night to feed his family.(according to his expression TT) When he wanted to quit his job, he couldn’t do that because of his position as paternity.
My husband was a lovely son to my mother-in-law. Well, maybe he is still lovely to her. If she knew her son’s burden, what would she say to her son? In 20 years or so, my two sons also will be a father. I hope that my sons won’t follow in their father’s footsteps. I really want my sons to do whatever they want to do as much as my husband wants.
At last, I also hope that my husband can do whatever he wants to do. He is so dedicated for his family that he deserves it.
첫댓글 That's why your husband is very sincere and loves your family.
Sometimes, I want to be a his daughter.^^
^^ You and your family members must be happy~. Your diary is full of your love to your husband.
Well, you saw only one side of the relation between me and my husband^^
I think you are a lucky woman.^^
Do I seem to be lucky? Thank you.