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phubbing
[ˈfʌbiŋ〕
(휴대전화 사용으로)
주위 사람에 신경쓰지 않기
무시하기
내가 중고등학교에서 영어를 가르칠 때
다른 교사들이 생각하지 못한 '집중력'을 학생들에게 심어주었다
수업 시간에 손으로 펜돌리기를 하면 펜을 압수했고
다리를 떠는 학생이 눈에 뜨이면 그 다리를 꼬집어서 못 떠게 했다
나는 자신도 모르게 펜을 굴리면 비록 미미하지만
주의력 집중에 방해가 되고
다리 떠는 것 또한 쓸데없는 움직임으로
공부에 전력하기 어렵다고 여겼기 때문이다
요즈음은 펜 돌리기 정도는 아무것도 아니다
Did you see your daughter on her phone at the dinner table?
She was PHUBBING her guests as well as eating well.
당신의 딸이 저녁 식사 중에 휴대전화 쓰는 것을 보았는가
그 아이는 음식을 잘 먹는 것은 물론 손님들에게 신경을 쓰지 않고 있었어
이 글에서 phubbing (phub 의 현재분사)가 눈에 뜨인다.
phub 은 2012 년 오스트렐리아 (오스트리아가 아닌) 에서
시작된 신조어로 phone + snub (무시하며 모욕하다) 의 합성어다
전화 때문에 상대방을 무시한다는 뜻이다
Don't phub me but concentrate what you are doing
and You'd better decide which is more important using your phone or eating with good relationship.
전화하면서 날 무시하지 말고 네가 하는 일에 집중해
그리고 전화를 사용하는 것과 좋은 대인관계를 맺으며 식사하는 것 가운대
어느것이 더 중요한지 결정하는 게 좋겠어
여성들이 섭섭할지 모르겠으나 이런 연구 결과가 있다
Men are guiltier of PHUBBING but countless researches have actually claimed
that women are more addicted to their devices.
남성들은 휴대전화로 상대방에 주으를 집중하지 않는 것에
더 죄스럽게 여기지만, 여성들이 그들의 도구 (TV 또는 휴대전화)에
더 중독되고 있다는 연구 결과를 내놓았다
엊그제 잃은 글은 phubbing 에 대해 심각한 주장을 했다
The potential for PHUBBING is ever present for those in romantic relationships.
휴대전화로 인한 상대방에 대한 무관심의 가능성은
사랑하는 관계를 가진 사람들에게 언제나 존재하는데
because it (PHUBBING) was associated with lower marital satisfaction,
contributed to greater likelihood of depression.
낮은 결혼만족도와 연관이 있었으며
스트레스의 더 큰 가능성의 원인이 되었다
(Psychology Today, Feburuary 5, 2023)
Try to live just one day without the cellphone (that is no PHUBBING)
and you will find it yourself to be more satisfied than using it.
휴대전화 없이 단 하루라고 보내도록 노력하라 (즉 phubbing 없는)
그러면 그것 사용하는 것 보다 더 만족하는 당신을 찾을 것이다
가능성
Unconsciously I phubbed my girlfriend.
I'm not guilty of phubbing, but
Are you even listening? You're phubbing me.
Don't phub me. What's so important on your phone you had to look at it right now?
He also banned phubbing by teachers during school hours.
Today, more than three-quarters of Americans own a smartphone, so the phubbing problem may be getting worse.
Did you see her on her phone at the dinner table. She was phubbing her guests.
I used to have the erroneous belief that men are guiltier of phubbing but countless researches have actually claimed that women are more addicted to their devices.
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The surveys were crafted to quantify "phubbing" (a portmanteau of "phone" and "snubbing") or the act of being snubbed because of the distractions that a smartphone offers.
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But phubbing isn't just something that happens in romantic relationships, it's changing our dynamics with our friends, our colleagues, our teachers..
. and when it comes to the classroom, ourselves
the potential for phubbing is ever present for those in romantic relationships.
Partner phubbing, because it was associated with lower marital satisfaction, contributed to greater likelihood of
depression
가능성
Phubbing
Research explains that ignoring your partner for your smartphone (i.e., phone snubbing) can gnaw at the fabric of your relationship.
☆ You must put your phones away whenever you are in these areas. Put your phone on silent or activate the “Do not disturb” feature whenever you are around people or having a conversation as this is another effective way to stop phubbing. In this way, you won't constantly feel the need to check your phone ☆
Contaminate Romantic Relationships
The internet is changing how we behave in relationships—often, for the worse.
Posted February 5, 2023
Reviewed by Jessica Schrader
KEY POINTS
Tech has brought us closer in many ways, but problematic behaviors have also emerged in romantic relationships.
Phone snubbing, ghosting, and porn overindulgence can present challenges in relationships.
2012: blend of phone1 and snubbing (from snub); coined by an Australian advertising agency as part of a marketing campaign with the Macquarie Dictionary.