TO EDWARD LOFSTROM: A letter of great encouragement for someone who had been struggling with excessive self-awareness.
10 June 1962
You are of course perfectly right /in defining your problem (which is also mine and everyone’s) as ‘excessive selfness’. But perhaps you don’t fully realise how far you have got /by so defining it. All have this disease; fortunate are the minority //who know they have it. To know that one is dreaming is to be already nearly awake, even if, for the present, one can’t wake up fully. And you have actually got further than that. You have got beyond the illusion (very common) that to recognise a chasm is the same thing as building a bridge over it.
* selfness; a person's essential individuality.
Your danger now is that of being hypnotised by the mere sight of the charm, of constantly looking at this excessive selfness. The important thing now is to go steadily on acting, so far as you can—and you certainly can /to some extent, however small — as if it wasn’t there. You can, and I expect () you daily do—behave with some degree of unselfishness. You can and do make some attempt at prayer. [The continual voice //which tells you that your best actions are secretly filled with subtle self-regards, and your best prayers still wholly egocentric] —must for the most part be simply disregarded— as one disregards the impulse /to keep on looking under the bandage /to see whether the cut is healing. If you are always fidgeting with the bandage, it never will.
A text () you should keep much in mind] is I John iii, 20:
‘If our heart condemns us God is greater than our heart.’
I sometimes pray ‘Lord give me no more and no less self-knowledge than I can at this moment make a good use of.’ Remember () He is the artist and you are only the picture. You can’t see it. So quietly submit to be painted —i.e., keep onfulfilling all the obvious duties of your station (you really know quite well enough what they are!), asking forgiveness for each failure and then leaving it alone.
You are in the right way. Walk—don’t keep on looking at it.
* [The continual voice] —must for the most part be simply disregarded— 주절의 동사인데 강조상 댓쉬를 쓴것으로 보임 * walk 는 걸어가라는 의미가 아니고 시선을 떼고 walk away 떠나가라는 의미다 본다
From The Collected Letters of C.S. Lewis, Volume III Compiled in Yours, Jack