Hi,
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How are you tonight? I am a little blue without any special reason.
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Don't try to understand and know why woman is sometimes gloomy.
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Woman may understand how I feel now.
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Today I chatted with one of our members. I want to say sorry to her because I seemed to be a little rude in spite of myself. Let me appolize for it.
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I make it a rule not to chat here in our cafe.
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First, whenever they wanted to chat with me, I was doing something on the cafe such as erasing ads or posting something or reading yours. However, it cannot be a major reason for me to avoid conversations with members here.
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The main reason why I dislike chatting here is because their questions are limited to the followings;
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1.Where do you live?
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2. How old are you?
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3. What's your job?
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4. Are you male or female?
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5. Are you married or single?
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6. Would you translate this sentence into English?
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Do you know that most members here don't want to reveal their information when they register as a member? It means that they want to keep their privacy. Of course, I didn't reveal my information, either. But my friends here already know who I am, where I live, what I do, etc through my writing. That's inevitable.
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If they ask me such questions, I hesitate what to answer.
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Do I have to tell the truth or tell them a lie or keep silence?
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I usually keep silence and discontinue conversation. So some members can regard me to be proud. But I am not such a woman.
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If you were in my place, what would you do?
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Do I have to reveal or tell my whole information because I am an owner of this cafe?
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P.S.
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Don't be so serious. You are so intelligent and pedantic that you tend to think something trivial too serious.
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첫댓글Where do we have to meet? I don't want to reveal my private life but I also want to share my private thought with our members. It seems that to be a wise man is to know the balaced meeting spots.
The reason we'd like to chat with you is that you, of course, are the owner of this wonderful cafe. We, especially I, obtain many beneficial things through the cafe. So, we feel like exchanging greeting with you and expressing thankness for you and several members. Please, don't think it rude.
Dear, mistyhill. I don't think they are rude. I just feel embarrassed when they want to know about me in detail. And I feel terribly sorry for my reluctant attitude. Sometimes I really want to reveal what I sincerely feel and think, but I cannot.....
첫댓글 Where do we have to meet? I don't want to reveal my private life but I also want to share my private thought with our members. It seems that to be a wise man is to know the balaced meeting spots.
Why can we not tell them the true in such situation? "Sorry I'd rather not talk about private issue or thing."
The reason we'd like to chat with you is that you, of course, are the owner of this wonderful cafe. We, especially I, obtain many beneficial things through the cafe. So, we feel like exchanging greeting with you and expressing thankness for you and several members. Please, don't think it rude.
But if you think it a bit rudely, we will be careful about these behaviors. Be relaxed and don't care !
Dear, mistyhill. I don't think they are rude. I just feel embarrassed when they want to know about me in detail. And I feel terribly sorry for my reluctant attitude. Sometimes I really want to reveal what I sincerely feel and think, but I cannot.....