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A person who dwells in others' heart.
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Recently, I got to know a person whom I didn't know at all. I mean he was a total stranger to me before. But now I felt like that he was one of my close friends.
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I just moved in this house as a lodger about a month ago and I was allotted to a small room with a simgle bed, a small closet, a desk, a small book shelve, two movable plastic drawers and a wooden drawer. A few days later I found out that a guy used to live in this room. He was a good guy who attended the same college as mine. He was well known to most of college teachers and staffs. And he was also considered as a nice guy who study hard and diligent. Even his house owner liked him a lot just better than the thought he was simply one of her lodgers. And he was even remembered by the neighbers' children. Though he now was gone for a new life and new career after finishing the course of college, everyone who used to know of him before, still have a pleasent memory about him.
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I found out due to the coincidence that I got to live in the room which he used to stay during the past two years.
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I could get in touch with him via E-mail. I introduced myself to him and asked of some helpful tips for this college life and practical advise for everyday activity in this small town. He kindly gave me some advices and asked me of say 'hello' some acquaintances in college. And when I delivered his 'Saying hello' to some teachers and staffs of college, their reaction was great. Most of them asked me back about how he is doing recently and where he is now, etc. And I think I can get closer to them by delivering his 'saying'.
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Can you guess? It is amazing experience for me to get to know someone whom recognised by everybody as a nice guy. He was gone now though, he is still alive in their memory.
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As for me, I'd rather be forgotten till now, though it doesn't necessarily mean I am not kind or I am rude. But I think this experience make me think twice about human relationship. I used to think human relationship is important but I'm short of experience and I'm not a generous one in terms of well-rounded or well-brought person. And I don't know how to make and maintain esp. about that kind of subtle things. Now I think I can. But I can't quite sure.
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Come to think of it, at least I have one person whose image of the kind of person within my acquaintances. That's good and enough for me, I think.
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How about you? Do you have someone like that? Or do you have similar experience like mine? If you can say 'Yes', I can definitely say you are not cold person. You are warm hearted soul.
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It is just around the corner when the winter come. I think I need to get a pair of winter glove in handy.
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첫댓글Your writing is very touching. I perfectly agree with you. We are hurt by persons, but we also get our real happiness from people. I think there are two kinds of people : The ones who try to be good, and the others who don't try to. Now I am busy in finding good persons hidden in the world !
How enviable his character is..! For most cases of young people,it seems to depend on how he was brought up. It is really nice to have but it's also true that there are plenty of other kinds of backgrounds. As an adult who has to lead his own way, more importance comes to their best efforts
from their own place. It gives us much of pleasure and beauty to see well-grown up trees and some flawless flowers, but in some cases it is those who have accompished from the worse that gives us deep touching emotion. Maybe you and others who are able to catch out good lessons is the real person
A nice story! I wonder if this fellow's ears tickled because you were talking about him. He sure does seem wonderful. What an honor for him to be remembered as a nice person to everyone!
첫댓글 Your writing is very touching. I perfectly agree with you. We are hurt by persons, but we also get our real happiness from people. I think there are two kinds of people : The ones who try to be good, and the others who don't try to. Now I am busy in finding good persons hidden in the world !
How enviable his character is..! For most cases of young people,it seems to depend on how he was brought up. It is really nice to have but it's also true that there are plenty of other kinds of backgrounds. As an adult who has to lead his own way, more importance comes to their best efforts
from their own place. It gives us much of pleasure and beauty to see well-grown up trees and some flawless flowers, but in some cases it is those who have accompished from the worse that gives us deep touching emotion. Maybe you and others who are able to catch out good lessons is the real person
to be admired. Thanks for your meaningful note.
A nice story! I wonder if this fellow's ears tickled because you were talking about him. He sure does seem wonderful. What an honor for him to be remembered as a nice person to everyone!