Should You Strive For Greatness?
Gwen Smith
Today’s Truth
Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up /in due time.” (1 Peter 5:6)
Friend to Friend
In my spare time I help coach our high school volleyball team. Let me
rephrase that, because I do not have spare time. Three months a year I
choose to invest daily in the lives of young female athletes //who play
volleyball /at the high school //where my children attend.
[One of the games () we play in practice] is called Queen of the Court,
[the goal of which] is simple: gain and keep the lead. Dominate. Be the
best and protect your turf /at all costs. Serve more aggressively, pass
more accurately, set more strategically, and hit harder than your
opponents. It is a fast-paced drill of skill //where only the strong
survive.
My life sometimes feels like a game of Queen of the Court.
I strive, set goals, create a game plan, and execute the strategy. I
long /to be my best (a good thing), but at times my goal changes /from
wanting to experience all of God’s best /for me /to wanting to be THE best
(not so good). Look at me, everyone! Check out my people, my position,
my possessions, my trophies-of-greatness...
I have to check my heart.
Am I striving /to be my best /in order to make the most of what God has
given me—or because I want to impress others and be at the top of the
heap? Those are two very different questions.
Too often I become fixated on aggressively spiking balls /on the
volleyball court of my ego, my family, my church, my community, my
country. (My goodness!) To make it worse, I throw on an invisible jersey
and play a game of Who-Is-The-Greatest? against the people around me.
Aren’t we so good at that? We think:
• I would be incredible /at that position if the boss would just stop giving all the best assignments /to other people.
• If I use this decorating idea from Pinterest, my house will be the envy of every woman /in the neighborhood.
We want to be seen as the best.
We want to be the best employee, work for the biggest Fortune 500
companies, and attend the largest mega church /with the most popular
pastor. We want to parent the smartest kids, serve on the most important
committees, and dangle on the arm of a hunky husband. Our shiny
pursuits and performances become our social media statuses the moment ()
they happen.
Can I get a witness?
We boast. We brag. We strive. We show. We want. We need. As I think
of these things a hush falls over my heart. Conviction. Embarrassment.
Because I often wrongly perceive life /as being all about ME.
We live in a world /filled with people //who are famous for being famous
and consumed with the greatness of them-selfies. My last name might not
be Kardashian, but on any given day my heart can house just as much
pride /in how many likes my posts and tweets get.
Let me tell you a little secret: Christian pride is just as ugly as
Entertainment Tonight pride. We Jesus girls tend /to drape it subtly over
our modest-is-hottest shoulders and wear it with a smile. Because our
sin isn’t as scandalous as tabloid sin, right?
Lord, forgive us.
We all want to be great. And that’s not a bad thing in and of itself.
We need to be people of excellence.
Jesus told a story, the Parable of
the Talents, where He taught that each of us is responsible to wisely
use [what we are given] (Matthew 25:14-30). God expects us to use our
talents, personalities, gifts, and energy /in productive ways.
The
problem comes in our motivation. If we are striving for excellence /so
that others will be oh-so-impressed,
then we are acting out of pride.
Instead of elevating our Lord, we are elevating ourselves.
Lord, forgive us.
The fire of conviction warms me...bends my knees.
Queen of the Court is a useful volleyball drill, but it is not a game
that Christians should be playing. If I really want to have all the
impact () God intends for me to have, then I need to be far more concerned
/with the greatness of God /than with the greatness of Gwen. The. End.
Peter reminds us /of this /in his letter /to the believers /in the early
church. “All of you, clothe yourselves /with humility /toward one another,
because, ‘God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.’ Humble
yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up
in due time.” (1 Peter 5:5b-6, NIV)
Our job: be humble before God and to others. Stop playing the greatness game.
God’s job: to lift us up /as He sees fit, when He sees fit… all to elevate Himself.
Let’s Pray
Dear Lord, Please help me to focus on your greatness /instead of my
own.
Purify my heart and be glorified in and through me today.
In Jesus’ Name,
Amen.