
영국신문에서 독자 의견란에 있는 것입니다.
그들이 즐겨 쓰는 문체도 읽어 보고 사회상도 엿보라고요,.
반드시 여러 번 읽는 버릇도 있어야 포괄적 사고도 생길 것
같아서입니다. 힘좀 냅시다요~ 우이쌰!
Can you live without getting married and not having kids?
Sure, more and more people are doing it now and in coming years.
Even trying marriage and kids does not guarrantee it will work out or
make you happy as many are disasterous for people.
Just look at all of the failed marriages and rotten kids people have.
It works for some and not for others.
I'm a full grown man and childless by choice and never married.
I see marriage as having only one purpose, to have kids and provide
a stable home for kids. I don't need any marriage license for sex,
companionship, happiness, or any other of the positive elements of
marriage. That license doesn't stop divorces and family strife anyway.
You have no guarrantee of having kids who will love you or turn out as
you'd wish them to. So, its a roll of the dice at best for most people to
marry and have kids.
You can choose either one without the other now too.
Have kids with no marriage and marriage with no kids and its all legal
and done all the time by lots of people.
What do you want out of life? How likely are you to get that through
marriage and having kids? Imagine life with and without each and see
what seems more attractive to you?
I can still make babies any second like a virile young stud, and get married
any time I wish. But in decades of being very fertile and with me also having
a super huge sex drive to reproduce, I just use condoms and stay single and
kid free and I'm loving it. I get more sure and more satisfied and sure with
each year that I've made the right choices so far.
I'd just advise you to keep your options open, stay fertile or virile, and with
age you will definately get more sure one way or the other on which options
are the best choices for you.
사나이는 세월 갈수록 갈 곳이 많노라(퍼온 사진)
완전 "한미 합작" 입니다. 이해 하세요!
첫댓글 글 쓴사람은 결혼하지 않고 자식을 갖지 않는 것을 자랑으로 여기는 것 같습니다.
그래서 sex with condoms의 결과로 kids-free의 삶을 즐긴다고 자랑하고 있는데 뭔가를 착각하고 있습니다.
해 본 사람은 잘 알지만 섹스는 장화끼지 않고 해야 제맛이 납니다.
성병과 에이즈가 두려워 길거리 여성과 관계를 가질때는 부득이 장화를 신지만 쾌감이 좋지 않습니다.
애를 낳고 길러보면 그 즐거움이 뭐라는 것도 압니다. 족보에 자손의 이름이 오르면 비로소 어른된 기분을 느낍니다.
자식때문에 희로애락을 겪기도 하지만 그것이 바로 삶의 재미 아닌가요?
The philosopher in Germany had already told us
you would regret one way or the other way,
whatever you get married and remain as single .
Sometimes, we would like to feel good as free ,when in single
and also the otherway,
we would be lonesome, if your family would not be comfortable .
Eventually , the happiness would be dependent on our thinking / decision on our mind .
Of course , without freedom on our mind ,
we are unable to enjoy our happiness .
It seems that I may agree everybody' free philosophy, but on a special topic, l try to understand other revert comment.
I heard that Amercian people think no need to be married to have a child.
So one-third of babies are born to unmarried.
A recent servey conducted by 보건복지부 also found that only 13% of unmarried women said they considered marriage 'essential'.
Most people say families with married and families not married are feel pity each other.
Babies is too the same.
So I think that's correct on both counts.
If it is you who are responsible for your life~~!
고로해서
☞결혼을 해도~ 안해도/
☞아이를 가져도~안가져도/
☞둘다 후회하게 된다~~^^
Marriage is a question that to be or not to be..
Did you see the news on TV today?
Our government announced that young couples are received more benefits for having their kids.
So I hope It they do.