Hi!Mr.**
This is sabine ,anyway how are you?
I really do understand how you feel ....also you sould not get angry with your grandparents.I am sorry to say this but there is no solution of hassle with old generations as we know.^*^what I am trying to say is just stick to what your heart telling you.most of all , you guys love each other and you appreciate to be in the relationship with someone who makes you happy and respect.what would you ask for more ...^^no matter what we do , people always give you hard time so if you don't mind , let me tell you one thing that someone's opinion of you or your private life does not have to become your reality. cheer up and be firm. As long as you know what you are doing with little patience , everything 'll be alright. As time goes by, humanbeing tend to change their mind.That is the one of reasons humanbeing can be still loved.Isn't it somehow ironic,Hmmmm. Before I am going, one more thing to say there is no parents(even granpa 'n granny:trust me) could win their precious child.This is the my prescription for you.don't worry I won't charge this time.HOhohoho.Any way good luck for your study and lurve** bye 4 now
: Alright. I'm a bit pissed and frustrated right now. I have a girlfriend named Masako. From the name you all probably guessed that she's Japanese; a correct asumption. Well, we've been togther for 4 years...since sophomore year in highschool. We both just finished our freshman year at Yale (luckily, we ended up going to the same college), and our relationship is as strong as ever. I really, truly believe she is the one for me...I love her greatly. Sure, some of you may be thinking that I'm too young to know what true love is....but do any of us really know? All I know for sure is that she is the reason I get up every morning with a smile...her grace and beauty still makes my heart pound, and everything about her I admire and appreciate. She is my best friend, confidant, and lover.
: But going back to what I was trying to say (I went on a little tangent there)... my grandparents came to Seattle (that's where my parents and sister live) from Korea to see my younger sister graduate middle school. It being our summer break, I brought Masako to Seattle with me. My parents have always cherished Masako dearly....until my grandparents disapproved of her. The grandparents don't like her just because of the fact that she's Japanese. That's the only reason....
: They told me to take her away and to never see her again....and all my parents could do was agree. Sure, I know about the history between Japan and Korea....I know all about the hardships and brutality we faced. But, why does that have to affect the new generation? The anger and hatred can still exist, but why at all Japanese people? Masako has never done anything wrong...it was 2 generations earlier when all those horrendous things happened.
: I just wish my grandparents would give my girl a chance...I believe it's unfair of them to disapprove of our relationship even before they get to know her. She is my heart and soul now...I cannot let her go this easily.
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: I just wanted to get all of this off my chest. Sorry for the rambling.....
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