A Blood Test to Predict Everlasting Love?
The study involved 163 adults in their 20s. Of the participants,
120 were new couples who had just started a romantic relationship; the rest were singles.
Researchers found that people in the throes of new love had far higher levels of
oxytocin than the unpartnered did. And higher oxytocin levels were linked with
more affectionate touch, better moods and greater synchrony of movements between couples.
What’s more, couples with the highest levels of the hormone early on were more likely
to stay together, compared with those with lower levels —
at least based on the 25 couples who were still together and with
whom the researchers were able to follow up six months later.
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But oxytocin isn’t all cuddles and coos: higher levels were also associated
with more anxiety and obsessiveness about the relationship
— a finding that also applies to new parents (in their case,
they obsess and worry about their children). The researchers suggest, however,
that that might not necessarily be a bad thing.
“The current findings may suggest that preoccupations with the romantic partner
and the relationship are just as essential for the formation of the selective and enduring romantic bond,
” they write.However, the study couldn’t determine whether people who began with
higher levels of oxytocin were more likely to fall in love and stay coupled
— or whether good loving itself increased oxytocin and kept the lovers linked.
The authors write that the connection could result from a
“feedback loop whereby higher levels of reciprocity and touch increased
the couples involvement in the relationship at the physiological,
behavioral and representational levels.” In other words, romantic words,
thoughts and behavior might raise oxytocin levels and lead to increased affection and connection,
which leads to more oxytocin and so on.
In practical terms, this means that if you want to stay in love, acting like you’re in
love may be the best way to do it. One prior study does suggest that taking oxytocin
itself can improve communication and relieve stress when couples fight
— but since it can also increase anxiety and obsessiveness,
it’s not clear whether giving it as a drug rather than a hug also has the potential to do harm in some situations.
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Interestingly, it was love rather than sex that the study found
to be connected with oxytocin. While prior research has found that oxytocin levels rise at orgasm,
this study found that new couples had higher oxytocin levels than singles,
regardless of whether they had consummated the relationship.
Also, although research by the same authors has found elevated levels
of oxytocin in new parents, compared with singles, they write,
“levels at the initial stages of romantic attachment were significantly
higher in new lovers than those observed in new parents,
indicating that the initial period of romantic love may induce the
most intense activity of the oxytocinergic system.” More research is needed to confirm this finding, however.
Meanwhile, perhaps it’s the fact that new love and early parenthood are
chemically similar that helps explain — but doesn’t necessarily excuse —
why new couples often become annoyingly cute and call each other infantile names.
첫댓글 S Kim님 타임앱 잘 활용할게요. 안 그래도 cnn 구글뉴스만 보기 왠지 허했는데 감사합니다^^