첫째의 특성

<div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin" data-link="http://cafe.daum.net/baemilytory/91cd" data-link-newwindow="_blank"><a href="http://cafe.daum.net/baemilytory/91cd" target="_blank" class="ke-link"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/0943d91348085aae467ff7ab55526550ad761609" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/0943d91348085aae467ff7ab55526550ad761609" data-origin-width="480" data-origin-height="130"></a></div><p style="text-align: left;">출저: 사피엔스 스튜디오 어쩌다 어른<br>김지윤 소장님 7편<br><br><a href="https://youtu.be/z1d58yfWVnM" target="_blank" class="ke-link">https://youtu.be/z1d58yfWVnM</a></p><div class="figure-video" data-ke-type="video" data-video-url="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1d58yfWVnM&feature=youtu.be" data-video-host="youtube" data-video-play-service="daum_cafe" data-video-width="1280" data-video-height="720" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-video-thumbnail="http://scrap.kakaocdn.net/dn/v6SND/hyKHHAWW9J/nyQF12laUFGQkP94KXy4t1/img.jpg?width=1280&height=720&face=218_104_382_284" data-ke-mobile-mobileStyle="widthContent" data-video-origin-width="1280" data-video-origin-height="720"><iframe src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/z1d58yfWVnM" width="1280" height="720" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen=""></iframe><div class="figcaption"></div></div><p style="text-align: left;"><br></p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/b0c2b369950f8d4d9755809e66a70bb0349c9628" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/b0c2b369950f8d4d9755809e66a70bb0349c9628" data-origin-width="480" data-origin-height="222"><div class="figcaption">들어가기에 앞서 성장과정에 의해 이런 보편적 특징을 띄지 않을 수 있습니다.</div></div><p style="text-align: left;"><span></span></p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/60135fc0f40d02de16c72e68ee17442f2d25cb04" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/60135fc0f40d02de16c72e68ee17442f2d25cb04" data-origin-width="480" data-origin-height="222"></div><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/79c4fef7cd052078002e0b859a8122a1e1698c6a" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/79c4fef7cd052078002e0b859a8122a1e1698c6a" data-origin-width="480" data-origin-height="222"></div><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/3a1cceee9418de98ddde47499ec3cb5a2b8f25c9" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/3a1cceee9418de98ddde47499ec3cb5a2b8f25c9" data-origin-width="480" data-origin-height="222"></div><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/0f316e99dd65587123c6f33be3ba002124113aa2" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/0f316e99dd65587123c6f33be3ba002124113aa2" data-origin-width="480" data-origin-height="222"></div><p style="text-align: left;">첫째의 특성 책임감이 강함과 동시에<br>긴장감과 외로움이 많음<br><br></p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/01741280f251a2887070b0d161a2ea3d2dff6b96" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/01741280f251a2887070b0d161a2ea3d2dff6b96" data-origin-width="480" data-origin-height="222"></div><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/cb13be0991a03feca603047a34183b6b1946e52b" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/cb13be0991a03feca603047a34183b6b1946e52b" data-origin-width="480" data-origin-height="222"></div><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/cbd74e302df3926b294a5b908d1978f36c4b0be6" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/cbd74e302df3926b294a5b908d1978f36c4b0be6" data-origin-width="480" data-origin-height="222"></div><p style="text-align: left;">또 예시와 같은 일화로 인해 통제 의식을 가짐<br>예시로 나온 구슬 얘기<br>나도(첫째) 아직 어려서 구슬을 입안에 넣고 있는데<br>그런 상황에서 동생 입안에 구슬 못먹게 하라고<br>엄마가 명령을 함<br>이런 과정에서 통제의식을 가지게됨<br></p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/caa59e9a6108c2e6ef2ffef9185bf27deee80abb" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/caa59e9a6108c2e6ef2ffef9185bf27deee80abb" data-origin-width="480" data-origin-height="222"></div><p style="text-align: left;">이러다보니 의사소통 과정에서<br>통제력 때문에 문제가 생김<br><br></p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/92f53507f20668e00141fd74fdc2e0a93bcfb15c" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/92f53507f20668e00141fd74fdc2e0a93bcfb15c" data-origin-width="480" data-origin-height="222"></div><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/d66a7d01bf8863f705bfd7562f9d9277e487ec7b" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1Yeqd/d66a7d01bf8863f705bfd7562f9d9277e487ec7b" data-origin-width="480" data-origin-height="222"></div><p style="text-align: left;"><br>어린시절 동생을 통제했던 경험에 의거해<br>성인이 되고 사회에 나가서도<br>남을 통제하고 제어하는 식의 의사소통을 함<br><br>Ex 국밥에는 깍두기 국물을 넣어 먹어야해,<br>날씨가 더운데 왜 스카프를 했어 등<br><br>영상을 더 보면 다른 출생순위에 대한 설명도 나옴<br>개인적으로 난 둘째인 엄마보다<br>첫째인 큰이모와 할머니 성격을 닮은점이 많은데<br>이런 출생순위에 의해서 생긴 특성으로 인해<br>닮은 특성이 생긴걸 알고 되게 신기해서<br>공유하고 싶어서 가져옴</p>