hello guys~
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how have you all been for this long vacation?
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hope, you all had a wonderful time with your families ^^
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in my case... since I quit the job, there was no reason to dalay my leaving time for 'si-dack" and I haven't visited my grandma in law for long...
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so I left my home at 21st and came back right yesterday..
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oh, it was the longest "vacation" I've ever had .. - -;;(only if I can call that as "vacation"!!)
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well...my parents in law are very nice people ,,but they got divorced long time ago so they don't live toghether any more..
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so this time I visited my father in law's and he is living with his mother ...i.e. my grandmother in law
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so actually ..I have absolutely no problem at all with my parents in law...and other family members of this family..but always all the problems come out from this old lady.. - -''
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well...it's not just her...it's also me... I guess...we don't quite fit together...
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her first hoppy is nagging ... and she's really good at it
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and she watches every single details which are happening around her..
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and she "must" know what's going on every time...
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so her second hoppy is watching as an eagle and directing them all .....(oh my god..she's 90 years old...and still exact as a clock )
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so...this old lady ..is really really bothering..........
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don't know how to say this...and u can all blame me calling her a nagger...
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but just don't stop me telling about her
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I think , I've had enough from her...
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she's very caring for my children..because she fostered my husband by her own hand so my husband is her life time favorite ... she really really adores him and everything about him also ...maybe that's why she has to nag.... I do understand that but eventhough I understand her good purpose for nagging... but I can't take it as good as her intention ...just too much for me
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for about 2 or 3 days would be fine to stay with her for me...
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but more than that...it's a disaster - -;;.
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my husband was not there with me after last thursay ..
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he went to philipines for the golf and came back right before day of "chu-seok"
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so mean~!!!
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so "I" had to stay with her literally "all the time" DUH~!!!
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and she didn't stop her nagging...
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especially about caring my childern..
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do this, do that, don't do that, why don't you and blah blah blah....
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now you guys would understand why I emphasized on "Gooooooooood " in title - -;;
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yes ~ yes~ I'm finally back~!!
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I have survived ....and I haven't gone completely mad ....- -''
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do you guys think I'm too mean for her?
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do I have to tell her to stop sincerly like ..."grandma ~you are really bothering me so stop nagging from now on" - -?
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do you guys think that I should tell at least to my husband how I feel about her??
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usually..I "act" like a real nice granddaughter in law
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so no one knows how bad I really am
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I mean...I can't really express how I feel about her to anyone...right?
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and that makes this situation worse..I guess
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so I'm tring to share my painful story with you guys here...to relieve my stress ~
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hmmm......my father in law's birthday is comming...
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it's right next month...sob sob sob _ _
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and it's my duty to visit and prepare everything ...and it's fine with me~
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but it's not fine to stay with that old lady again - -;; at least not this soon~!!!
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pray hard for me guys - -''
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and sorry for the gloomy story on this beautiful day
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though it's my very happy day ^^
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have a great day all~
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첫댓글Hi, soberMe. I can only imagine what you might have gone through. It is hard enough be a good daughter in law, but 시할머님? That's got to be tough. And your husband was a big help! ( Note the sarcasm ) If my husband went golfing, leaving me alone in that situation, he had swung his last iron.^
I would let my hubby know how difficult it is to be with her. But, that’s just me. It is hard to open up how you truly feel about a certain family member. Also, I do not want to spell it out, but the “end” may be near, if you know what I mean. Bless her, I bet she is so sweet....^^
첫댓글 Hi, soberMe. I can only imagine what you might have gone through. It is hard enough be a good daughter in law, but 시할머님? That's got to be tough. And your husband was a big help! ( Note the sarcasm ) If my husband went golfing, leaving me alone in that situation, he had swung his last iron.^
I would let my hubby know how difficult it is to be with her. But, that’s just me. It is hard to open up how you truly feel about a certain family member. Also, I do not want to spell it out, but the “end” may be near, if you know what I mean. Bless her, I bet she is so sweet....^^
thanx mickeyjane ..I feel much better now ..and we all know she's sweet ...huh? ^^;;