Would You Do a Background Check on Your Man?
Have you ever given your all in a relationship only to find out months later that your boyfriend wasn't everything you thought he was ㅡ that he was in fact leading a secret life on the side? If so, I can guarantee you're not the only one. It can be a scary world out there and with Internet dating being so prevalent, it's easier than ever to become anyone you want, leaving the past behind you. You can lie about past experiences, relationships, even careers, which is why so many women are either Googling new suitors or going as far as getting background checks to make sure they aren't getting the wool pulled over their eyes. According to an article on ABCNews.com you can log onto sites such as the Corra Group, a Los Angeles-based company that launched a website for dating-related background searches, and get all the answers you need.
By signing up online for as little as $39, along with the name and birth date of a significant other, you can get information about a person's address history, property ownership, as well as any bankruptcy claims, civil judgments, or aliases. For $20 more, the search includes criminal records, and an $89 fee gets you a nationwide federal crime search.
While this might seem like an excessive measure, it's always better to be safe than sorry. So let me ask you this: Would you ever run a background check on your new boyfriend, or do you feel like your intuition is strong enough that you wouldn't have to go to such extremes?
VOCABULARY LIST :
prevalent - existing very commonly or happening frequently
Googling - To look for information about something using Google
get the wool pulled over the eyes - to become tricked
alias - a false name, especially one used by a criminal
DISCUSSION POINTS :
1. Do you have a boy/girlfriend? Tell me about him/her.
2. How long have you known each other before you became a couple?
3. How well do you know your girl/boyfriend? What made you say that?
4. What can you say about people who run a background check on their partners?
5. Would you ever run a background check on your new boy/girlfriend? Why/Why not?