욕이다 vs 칭찬이다

<div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin" data-link="https://cafe.daum.net/subdued20club" data-link-newwindow="_blank"><a href="https://cafe.daum.net/subdued20club" target="_blank" class="ke-link"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/c66b4a1a23c64192bd183f48a1868843d96257d5" width="288" height="288" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/c66b4a1a23c64192bd183f48a1868843d96257d5" data-origin-width="1024" data-origin-height="1024"></a></div><p style="text-align: center;">출처: on purpose 팟캐스트</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/c1aa1b2e94f0c35f1bb29c44d204429263551672" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/c1aa1b2e94f0c35f1bb29c44d204429263551672" data-origin-width="2340" data-origin-height="1080"></div><p style="text-align: left;">어떻게 느껴질 것 같아? 만약 누군가가 너에게</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/0761a57b01f307348fef214cc49bf27f2d56159e" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/0761a57b01f307348fef214cc49bf27f2d56159e" data-origin-width="2340" data-origin-height="1080"></div><p style="text-align: left;">"네 파트너를 보니까 네가 스스로를 얼마나 사랑하는지 알 수 있을 것 같아" 라고 한다면?</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/99fbde79c973a52060d111c4d58adff2ab813b25" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/99fbde79c973a52060d111c4d58adff2ab813b25" data-origin-width="2340" data-origin-height="1080"></div><p style="text-align: left;">그게 칭찬 처럼 느껴질까 아니면 모욕 처럼 느껴질까?</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/026846a80fd3117b98531dc6cddbd287f7141312" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/026846a80fd3117b98531dc6cddbd287f7141312" data-origin-width="2340" data-origin-height="1080"></div><p style="text-align: left;">다른사람의 관계를 판단하려는 질문이 아니라</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/8253789e2f1f5fe06521247002dc7715a2be6c42" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/8253789e2f1f5fe06521247002dc7715a2be6c42" data-origin-width="2340" data-origin-height="1080"></div><p style="text-align: left;">당사자가 그 질문을 어떻게 느끼는지가 많은 통찰을 제공한다고 생각해</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/f52f83fd84b818e718c793642831b7b29e6f3f9d" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/f52f83fd84b818e718c793642831b7b29e6f3f9d" data-origin-width="2340" data-origin-height="1080"></div><p style="text-align: left;">상대방이 널 대하는 태도가 완전 너의 기분을 상하게 하는데도 불구하고 계속 참고 견디는건</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/8263c987f99f9a044ed872e3c0a73f38c1b362ef" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/8263c987f99f9a044ed872e3c0a73f38c1b362ef" data-origin-width="2340" data-origin-height="1080"></div><p style="text-align: left;">자기 자신을 사랑하는 사람이라면 하지 않을 행동이야</p>