Married couples should set their goals together and include their children as appropriate. For example, if your goal is to pay off a debt, your children should be aware of what that may entail. Then, if you must say no to spending on certain items, they can better understand the reasons why.
Singles can consult a trusted friend or family member to help them with this process and to provide some “progress checks” along the way. As a single person, I have found that my parents have sound, biblical financial advice, and I know that they always have my best interests at heart.
Chart the goal.
Write down your goal and post it in a visible spot. A written plan provides a visible objective to work toward. It helps you measure your progress and stay on track. It is exciting and motivating to track your progress and check off items as you reach each goal. I have found that a tool like the Crown Money Map™ is a great way to keep track of my goals and progress. I recently paid off my only debt (a car loan), and now I’m on Destination 4, saving for a house.
Breaking a large goal down into smaller ones that you can reach in quicker intervals can help keep you on track. Write down all the steps you will need to take to ultimately reach your larger goal.
Next, you should create a timeline, including deadlines for the small goals as well as the final end date for the large goal. Figure out how long it will take to reach each step or decide on the date when you want the goal to be reached and work backwards from there.
Practice patience. It may take a while to reach your goal. Don’t get discouraged! Keep plodding along steadily. “The plans of the diligent lead surely to advantage, but everyone who is hasty comes surely to poverty” (Proverbs 21:5 NASB).
Refine the goal.
You may experience setbacks or interruptions in your plans. Don't give up! Be flexible and learn to adjust your goals based on your current situation. I hadn’t planned on buying a new washing machine, but when mine suddenly broke down, it was reassuring to know that I had the money to buy a new one. I just had to adjust the extra amount I was putting towards my car loan, but that was fine.
Be open to God’s leading. Pray over each goal often to ensure that you are moving in the right direction.
After each major life changing event—change of jobs, buying a new house, children leaving home, birth of children and/or grandchildren, and so on—reevaluate your goals, adapt them, and use this as an opportunity to add new ones.
Celebrate!
Be sure to celebrate when you reach a goal, no matter whether it’s small or large. Mark the event on your progress chart, and tell others about reaching the goal. The celebration will energize you to move on to the next step or to the next goal.