Marriage and Deliveries and nurses Children is Duty of Men

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결혼과 출산과 육아는 사람의 본분입니다

Marriage and Deliveries and nurses Children is Duty of Men

본문: 마태복음 19장

Scripture Reading: Matthew 19

“하나님이 하나님의 형상대로 사람을 남자와 여자로 창조하시고, 복을 주시며 생육하고 번성하여 땅에 충만하라(창1:27-28)” 하신 창조 섭리대로 온 세상 모든 동물이 짝을 지어 새끼를 낳고, 식물도 꽃을 피워 씨를 맺고 번성하며, 사람도 결혼하고 자녀를 낳아 기르게 되므로, “사람을 지으신 이가 본래 그들을 남자와 여자로 지으시고, 사람이 그 부모를 떠나서 아내에게 합하여 둘이 한 몸이 될지니라. 그런즉 이제 둘이 아니요 한 몸이므로 하나님이 짝지어주신 것을 사람이 나누지 못하게((마19:4-6)” 하셨는데, “사람마다 이 말을 받지 못하고 오직 타고난 자라야 할지니라(마19:11)” 하셨듯, 하나님의 특별한 섭리로 태어난 극소수 독신자를 제외하고 모두가 결혼하고 자녀를 낳아 기르는 영생의 동반자로 창조 하셨으므로, 서로 갈등하고 미워하다 갈라서면 하나님을 거역하는 죄가 되고, “모세가 너희 마음의 완악함 때문에 아내 버림을 허락하였거니와 본래는 그렇지 아니하니라. 내가 너희에게 말하노니 음행한 이유 외에 아내를 버리고 다른데 장가드는 자는 간음함이니라((마19:8-9)” 하셨듯, 하나님 말씀보다 자신을 더 사랑하거나, 배우자보다 다른 사람을 더 사랑하는 죄가 되어 심판을 받습니다.

Ladies and Gentleman, do you know the heavenly God, why he was made male and female with his own image as word as “God created man in his own image, male and female. God blessed them, Be fruitful and increase in number, fill the earth(Genesis1:27-28)” Because, God whishes fills his kingdom by faithfulness, goodness children through men. That’s why, “At the beginning the Creator made them male and female, and said, For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh? So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate(Matthew19:4:6)” because God was made men will be perfection by united man with woman to be one flesh with truth and loves of God, but excepts only a few men, as “Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given(Matthew19:11)” That’s why the Lord Jesus was warned it as “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commit adultery(Matthew19:8-9)” Therefore, everyone will be responsibility and duty of marriage and deliveries, nurses, and preaches of gospel to their children and filled heaven of God. But if anyone he does not obey this commands he will be doomed, because his sins of disobeying to God.

왜냐하면 “네 이웃을 네 자신과 같이 사랑하라(마19:19)” 하셨듯, 배우자를 자신처럼 사랑하면 행복한 가정이 되기 때문에, “아내들아 이와 같이 자기 남편에게 순종하라 이는 혹 말씀을 순종하지 않는 자라도 말로 말미암지 않고 아내의 행실로 말미암아 구원을 받게 하려 함이니, 너희의 두려워하며 정결한 행실을 봄이라. 너희의 단장은 머리를 꾸미고 금을 차고 아름다운 옷을 입는 외모로 하지 말고, 오직 마음에 숨은 사람을 온유하고 안정한 심령의 썩지 아니할 것으로 하라 이는 하나님 앞에 값진 것이니라(벧전3:1-4)-남편들아 이와 같이 지식을 따라 너희 아내와 동거하고 그를 더 연약한 그릇이요 생명의 은혜를 함께 이어받을 자로 알아 귀히 여기라(벧전3:7)” 하셨고, 믿지 않는 배우자와의 신앙적 갈등도 참고 견디며 사랑으로 이겨야 되기 때문에, “어떤 여자에게 믿지 아니하는 남편이 있어 아내와 함께 살기를 좋아하거든 남편을 버리지 말라. 믿지 아니하는 남편이 아내로 말미암아 거룩하게 되고 믿지 아니하는 아내가 남편으로 말미암아 거룩하게 되나니 그렇지 아니하면 너희 자녀도 깨끗하지 못하니라(고전7:13-14)-아내들이여 자기 남편에게 복종하기를 주께 하듯 하라. 이는 남편이 아내의 머리 됨이 그리스도께서 교회의 머리 됨과 같음이니 그가 바로 몸의 구주시므로. 교회가 그리스도에게 하듯 아내들도 범사에 자기 남편에게 복종하라(엡5:22-24)” 하셨습니다.

Whoever, If he loves his spouse as himself, as “Love your neighbor as yourself(Matthew19:19)” he can establish his home to sweetness, faithfulness and peaceful home for ever. So that the Lord will teaches it as “Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight(1Peter3:1-4)-Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers(1Peter3:7)” Moreover, every believers to win by his truthful faith and loves his spouse, even she or he does not believe Jesus, that’s why God teaches it also, as “If a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean (1Corithians7:13-14)-Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything(Ephesians5:22-24)”

하나님께서태초에정한믿음의법칙대로맡기고의지하며죽기까지순종하신예수님처럼목숨바쳐사랑해야되기때문에, “남편들아 아내 사랑하기를 그리스도께서 교회를 사랑하시고 교회를 위하여 자신을 주심 같이 하라. 이는 곧 물로 씻어 말씀으로 깨끗하게 하사 거룩하게 하시고, 자기 앞에 영광스러운 교회로 세우사 티나 주름 잡힌 것이나 이런 것들이 없이 거룩하고 흠이 없게 하려 하심이라. 이와 같이 남편들도 자기 아내 사랑하기를 자기 자신과 같이 할지니 자기 아내를 사랑하는 자는 자기를 사랑하는 것이라(엡5:25-28)” 하셨으므로, 선택할 자유와 권리가 있다 착각하고 결혼하지 않거나, 아이를 낳지 않거나 기르지 않으면, “하나님이 그들에게 복을 주시며 생육하고 번성하여 땅에 충만하라(창1:27-28)” 하신 창조 섭리를 거역하는 죄가 되고, 이혼하면, “사람을 지으신 이가 본래 남자와 여자로 지으시고, 사람이 부모를 떠나 아내에게 합하여 둘이 한 몸이 될지니라 하신 것을 읽지 못하였느냐. 이제 둘이 아니요 한 몸이니 하나님이 짝지어주신 것을 사람이 나누지 못할((마19:4-6)” 명령을 거역하는 죄가 되므로, “결혼한 자들에게 내가 명하노니 여자는 남편에게서 갈라서지 말고, 만일 갈라섰으면 그대로 지내든지 다시 그 남편과 화합하든지 하라 남편도 아내를 버리지 말라(고전7:10-11)” 하셨는데, “오늘 내가 네게 명하는 이 말씀을 너는 마음에 새기고, 네 자녀에게 부지런히 가르치며 집에 앉았을 때에든지 길을 갈 때에든지 누워 있을 때에든지 일어날 때에든지 이 말씀을 강론할 것이며, 너는 그것을 네 손목에 매어 기호를 삼으며 네 미간에 붙여 표로 삼고, 네 집 문설주와 바깥 문에 기록할지니라(신6:6-9)” 하셨듯, 믿음과 구원이 가정에서 이루어지기 때문입니다.

Besides, everyone will be loves his spouse with give his lives through the salvation law of Christ Jesus, as Jesus was gave his life for us dead by cross, that’s why, God said to us, as “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself(Ephesians5:25-28)” That’s why, if anyone who does not married or nor conceives, delivery or rears his children, he will be fallen to sins of disobeying the command of God, as “God created man in his own image, male and female. God blessed them, Be fruitful and increase in number, fill the earth(Genesis1:27-28)” And, anyone who divorce and separate his spouse, he will fallen to sins of disobeying to God’s command, as “At the beginning the Creator made them male and female, and said, For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh? So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate(Matthew19:4:6)” That’s why, God commanded and taught to us, as “To the married I give this command. A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife(1Corinthians7:10-11)” Because, our faith of salvation in Christ Jesus will be starts and achieved with sweet home through the faithful parents to their children, as “These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads(Deuteronomy6:6-9)”

그러므로 “남자가 부모를 떠나 아내와 합하여 둘이 한 몸을 이루는(창2:24)” 결혼을 하고 자녀를 낳아, “생육하고 번성하여 땅에 충만해야(창1:28)” 되는 하나님의 창조 섭리를 모르던 조상들조차 가난해도 “제 먹을 복은 타고난다” 하며 많은 자녀를 낳아 길렀고, 믿음의 조상들도 “자식들은 여호와의 기업이요 태의 열매는 상급이로다. 젊은 자의 자식은 장사의 수중의 화살 같으니, 이것이 그의 화살통에 가득한 자는 복되도다(시127:3-5)” 가르치는데, 인구 과밀과 식량 고갈을 걱정하지만, “네 하나님 여호와의 말씀을 청종하면, 성읍에서도 복을 받고 들에서도 복을 받을 것이며, 네 자녀와 토지의 소산과 짐승의 새끼와 소와 양의 새끼가 복을 받을 것이며, 네 광주리와 떡 반죽 그릇이 복을 받을 것이며, 네가 들어와도 복을 받고 나가도 복을 받을 것이라(신28:2-6)” 하셨듯, 하나님께 순종하면 공급하고 채우며 이루시기 때문에, “듣는 자도 올 것이요 목마른 자도 올 것이요 원하는 자는 값없이 생명수를 받으라(계22:17)- 너희는 그 은혜에 의하여 믿음으로 말미암아 구원을 받았으니 너희에게서 난 것이 아니요 하나님의 선물이라(엡2:8)” 하셨으므로, 짝을 찾아 결혼하고 생육하고 번성하라는 말씀에 순종하여 임마누엘 하나님 형통한 복을 받으며 그리스도 복음의 진리를 전하고 증거하다 영생 얻기를 예수 이름으로 간절히 축복하며 기도합니다. 아멘.

Therefore, every men duty and responsibility of married, as “A man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh(Genesis2:24)” And to fills to the kingdom of God with their faithful children through the word of God and loves, as “Be fruitful and increase in number, fill the earth(Genesis1:28)” That’s why, the our ancestors were many children, even they were did not known the wills of God and poverty, and godly fathers also said, as “Sons are a heritage from the Lord, children a reward from him. Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are sins born in one’s youth. Blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them. They will not be put to shame when they contend with their enemies in the gate(Psalms127:3-5)” But, now so many governments and peoples are birth-control because of afraid of shortage of foods. However, anyone who will be obeying to God, he will be provides foods and everything he need, as “All these blessing will come upon you and accompany you if you obey the Lord your God. You will be blessed in the city and blessed in the country, The fruit of your womb will be blessed, and the crops of your land and the young of your livestock-the calves of your herds and the lambs of your flocks. Your basket and your kneading trough will be blessed, You will be blessed when you come in and blessed when you go out(Deuteronomy28:2-6)” That’s why, God will calling to everyone, as “Let him who hears, Come. Whoever is thirsty, let him come, and Whoever wishes, let him take the free gift of the water of life(Reval‎ation22:17)-It is by grace you have been saved, through faith-and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God(Ephesians2:8)” That’s why, everyone will be marriage and have children without birth-controls and nurses them with loves and truth of the word of God, then the Holy Spirit will come to your Immanuel God and provides and blesses your life to be prosperous and leads you to the kingdom of heaven forever and ever. I prayer for you have like as good and worthy faith in Jesus all. Amen.