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<p> </p><p><span>감정코칭과</span><span> </span><span>함께한</span><span> 10</span><span>년</span><span> </span><span>그리고</span><span> </span><span>함께할</span><span> 10</span><span>년</span></p><p><span> </span><span>▪️</span><span>감정코칭은</span><span> </span><span>행복씨앗입니다</span></p><p><span> </span><span>▪️</span><span> AI </span><span>시대의</span><span> </span><span>생존능력은</span><span> </span><span>공감과</span><span> </span><span>소통</span><span>. </span><span>회복탄력성</span></p><p><span> -4</span><span>차</span><span> </span><span>산업혁명</span><span> </span><span>시대에</span><span> </span><span>가장</span><span> </span><span>요구되는</span><span> </span><span>생존</span><span> </span><span>능력이</span><span> '</span><span>감정적</span><span> </span><span>공감과</span><span> </span><span>소통능력</span><span>' '</span><span>회복탄력성</span><span>'</span><span>임</span></p><p><span>-</span><span>행동주의가</span><span> </span><span>지배하던</span><span> </span><span>시대에서</span><span> </span><span>정서기반</span><span> </span><span>긍정심리학이</span><span> </span><span>중심에</span><span> </span><span>서고</span><span> </span><span>창의력</span><span>. </span><span>집단지능</span><span>. </span><span>회복탄력성이</span><span> AI</span><span>시대에</span><span> </span><span>살아남을</span><span> </span><span>수</span><span> </span><span>있는</span><span> </span><span>생존무기가</span><span> </span><span>되었음</span></p><p><span> </span><span>▪️</span><span>계속</span><span> </span><span>진화하고</span><span> </span><span>널리</span><span> </span><span>전파되고</span><span> </span><span>있는</span><span> </span><span>감정코칭</span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #333333;">아이와</span><span style="color: #333333;"> </span><span style="color: #333333;">마음을</span><span style="color: #333333;"> </span><span style="color: #333333;">나누는</span><span style="color: #333333;"> </span><span style="color: #333333;">마법의</span><span style="color: #333333;"> </span><span style="color: #333333;">기술</span><span style="color: #333333;">. </span><span style="color: #333333;">감정코칭</span></p><p><span> </span><span>▪️</span><span>상호작용</span><span> </span><span>속에</span><span> </span><span>보이는</span><span> '</span><span>관계</span><span>'</span><span>의</span><span> </span><span>패턴</span></p><p><span>여러실험을</span><span> </span><span>통해</span><span> </span><span>정서적인</span><span> </span><span>환경에</span><span> </span><span>아주</span><span> </span><span>작은</span><span> </span><span>변화만</span><span> </span><span>생겨도</span><span> </span><span>정서적</span><span>. </span><span>사회적</span><span>. </span><span>지적</span><span> </span><span>발달에</span><span> </span><span>엄청난</span><span> </span><span>영향을</span><span> </span><span>미친다는</span><span> </span><span>것이</span><span>증명됨</span><span> </span></p><p><span>▪️</span><span>부모의</span><span> </span><span>불행한</span><span> </span><span>관계는</span><span> </span><span>아이의</span><span> </span><span>생명까지도</span><span> </span><span>단축시킨다</span></p><p><span>▪️</span><span>감정코칭형</span><span> </span><span>부모와</span><span> </span><span>감정묵살형부모</span></p><p><span>-</span><span>감정묵살형부모의</span><span> </span><span>경우</span><span> </span><span>자녀의</span><span> </span><span>부정적</span><span> </span><span>감정을</span><span> </span><span>인정하지</span><span> </span><span>않고</span><span> </span><span>마치</span><span> </span><span>독극물인양</span><span> </span><span>긍정적</span><span> </span><span>감정으로</span><span> </span><span>바꾸기</span><span> </span><span>위해</span><span> </span><span>무조건적으로</span><span> </span><span>노력함</span><span>. </span></p><p><span>-</span><span>감정코칭형</span><span> </span><span>부모의</span><span> </span><span>경우</span><span> </span><span>자녀들의</span><span> </span><span>소소한</span><span> </span><span>감정을</span><span> </span><span>인지하고</span><span> </span><span>부정적</span><span> </span><span>감정조차도</span><span> </span><span>정상적인</span><span> </span><span>감정으로</span><span> </span><span>인정해주고</span><span> </span><span>아이</span><span> </span><span>스스로</span><span> </span><span>자신의</span><span> </span><span>감정을</span><span> </span><span>인지</span><span> </span><span>할</span><span> </span><span>수</span><span> </span><span>있도록</span><span> </span><span>도와줌</span></p><p><span>▪️</span><span>아이에게</span><span> </span><span>주는</span><span> </span><span>평생의</span><span> </span><span>선물</span><span>. </span><span>감정코칭</span></p><p><span>-</span><span>아이의</span><span> </span><span>소소한</span><span> </span><span>감정인식하기</span></p><p><span>-</span><span>아이의</span><span> </span><span>감정적인</span><span> </span><span>표현들을</span><span> </span><span>친밀감과</span><span> </span><span>감정코칭의</span><span> </span><span>기회로보기</span></p><p><span>-</span><span>이해심을</span><span> </span><span>가지고</span><span> </span><span>귀기울이며</span><span> </span><span>아이의</span><span> </span><span>감정을</span><span> </span><span>이해함을</span><span> </span><span>전달하기</span></p><p><span>-</span><span>아이</span><span> </span><span>스스로</span><span> </span><span>감정을</span><span> </span><span>말로</span><span> </span><span>표현하도록</span><span> </span><span>돕기</span></p><p><span>-</span><span>화나는</span><span> </span><span>상황에서</span><span> </span><span>아이가</span><span> </span><span>문제를</span><span> </span><span>적절히</span><span> </span><span>해결하도록</span><span> </span><span>도와줌</span></p><p><span>감정코칭</span><span> </span><span>결과</span><span> </span><span>아이는</span><span> </span><span>자기조절</span><span> </span><span>능력이</span><span> </span><span>강해지며</span><span> </span><span>부모자녀간의</span><span> </span><span>소통이</span><span> </span><span>가능해져</span><span> </span><span>원만한</span><span> </span><span>가족관계에</span><span> </span><span>긍정적영향을줌</span><span>. </span><span>인생의</span><span> </span><span>여러</span><span> </span><span>선택의</span><span> </span><span>순간에</span><span> </span><span>본인이</span><span> </span><span>생각하는</span><span> </span><span>바람직한</span><span> </span><span>모습에</span><span> </span><span>점점</span><span> </span><span>가까운</span><span> </span><span>선택을</span><span> </span><span>할</span><span> </span><span>수</span><span> </span><span>있도록</span><span> </span><span>도와줌</span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #333333;">감정코칭을</span><span style="color: #333333;"> </span><span style="color: #333333;">선택해야</span><span style="color: #333333;"> </span><span style="color: #333333;">하는</span><span style="color: #333333;"> </span><span style="color: #333333;">이유</span></p><p><span style="color: #333333;">아주</span><span style="color: #333333;"> </span><span style="color: #333333;">작은</span><span style="color: #333333;"> </span><span style="color: #333333;">노력으로</span><span style="color: #333333;"> </span><span style="color: #333333;">출발할</span><span style="color: #333333;"> </span><span style="color: #333333;">수</span><span style="color: #333333;"> </span><span style="color: #333333;">있는</span><span style="color: #333333;"> </span><span style="color: #333333;">감정코칭</span></p><p> </p><p><span>▪️</span><span>체벌을</span><span> </span><span>통해서는</span><span> </span><span>아이의</span><span> </span><span>인성문제를</span><span> </span><span>해결할</span><span> </span><span>수</span><span> </span><span>없음</span></p><p><span>▪️</span><span>과거와</span><span> </span><span>달라진</span><span> </span><span>가족</span><span> </span><span>관계</span><span> </span><span>속에서</span><span> </span><span>감정코칭이야</span><span> </span><span>말로</span><span> </span><span>자녀의</span><span> </span><span>인성문제를</span><span> </span><span>해결하기</span><span> </span><span>위한</span><span> </span><span>검증된</span><span> </span><span>방법임</span></p><p> </p><p><span style="color: #333333;">소감</span></p><p><span>일전에</span><span> </span><span>이와</span><span> </span><span>관련된</span><span> </span><span>다큐를</span><span> </span><span>본</span><span> </span><span>기억이있습니다</span></p><p><span>감정코칭이란</span><span> </span><span>단어</span><span> </span><span>자체가</span><span> </span><span>익숙한</span><span> </span><span>듯</span><span> </span><span>하지만</span><span> </span><span>진짜</span><span> </span><span>내용은</span><span> </span><span>영</span><span> </span><span>친숙하지</span><span> </span><span>않은</span><span> </span><span>느낌이었습니다</span></p><p><span>처음</span><span> </span><span>키즈노트</span><span> </span><span>공지사항을</span><span> </span><span>보고</span><span> </span><span>신청하고자</span><span> </span><span>하였으나</span><span> </span><span>함께</span><span> </span><span>토론해야</span><span> </span><span>한다는</span><span> </span><span>부담감에</span><span> </span><span>망설이고</span><span> </span><span>있을</span><span> </span><span>때</span><span> </span><span>누군가</span><span> </span><span>살짝</span><span> </span><span>등</span><span>떠밀어</span><span> </span><span>주기를</span><span> </span><span>바랐습니다</span><span>. </span><span>다행히</span><span> </span><span>은지쌤의</span><span> </span><span>추천으로</span><span> </span><span>교육에</span><span> </span><span>참여하게</span><span> </span><span>되었음에</span><span> </span><span>지금은</span><span> </span><span>정말</span><span> </span><span>감사합니다</span><span> </span></p><p><span>들어가는</span><span> </span><span>글을</span><span> </span><span>요약하는</span><span> </span><span>과정만으로도</span><span> </span><span>여러번</span><span> </span><span>곱씹어</span><span> </span><span>읽어보았는데</span><span> </span><span>읽을수록</span><span> </span><span>새로운</span><span> </span><span>깨달음이</span><span> </span><span>있네요</span><span> </span><span>제가</span><span> </span><span>그동안</span><span> </span><span>알고있던</span><span> </span><span>지식과는</span><span> </span><span>다른</span><span> </span><span>점이있어서</span><span> </span><span>살짝</span><span> </span><span>혼란스럽기도</span><span> </span><span>했구요</span><span> </span></p><p><span>저는</span><span> </span><span>굳이</span><span> </span><span>나누자면</span><span> </span><span>감정묵살형</span><span> </span><span>부모에</span><span> </span><span>가깝지</span><span> </span><span>않은가</span><span> </span><span>생각이</span><span> </span><span>듭니다</span><span> </span><span>물론</span><span> </span><span>들어가기글만으로</span><span> </span><span>판단하기에는</span><span> </span><span>이른</span><span> </span><span>감이</span><span> </span><span>있으나</span><span> </span><span>아이들이</span><span> </span><span>문제상황에</span><span> </span><span>닥쳐서</span><span> </span><span>부정적인</span><span> </span><span>감정을</span><span> </span><span>지니고</span><span> </span><span>있는</span><span> </span><span>것에</span><span> </span><span>제</span><span> </span><span>스스로가</span><span> </span><span>힘들어</span><span> </span><span>하는</span><span> </span><span>편입니다</span><span> </span></p><p><span>이번</span><span> </span><span>교육은</span><span> </span><span>아이를</span><span> </span><span>위함</span><span> </span><span>이전에</span><span> </span><span>제</span><span> </span><span>자신</span><span> </span><span>스스로의</span><span> </span><span>초감정을</span><span> </span><span>이해하고</span><span> </span><span>저와</span><span> </span><span>더</span><span> </span><span>친해지는</span><span> </span><span>계기가</span><span> </span><span>되었으면</span><span> </span><span>합니다</span><span> </span><span>결과적으론</span><span> </span><span>저에</span><span> </span><span>대한</span><span> </span><span>이해가</span><span> </span><span>아이를</span><span> </span><span>위함이라</span><span> </span><span>믿고있습니다</span><span> </span><span>앞으로의</span><span> </span><span>수업에</span><span> </span><span>더</span><span> </span><span>기대가</span><span> </span><span>되고</span><span> </span><span>이런</span><span> </span><span>좋은</span><span> </span><span>교육을</span><span> </span><span>생각하고</span><span> </span><span>실천해주셔서</span><span> </span><span>원장선생님께</span><span> </span><span>감사합니다</span></p>
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Re:1기-1주-읽기(감정코칭서문)
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첫댓글 어머님^^
얼마나 몇번을 생각하며 서문을 읽었는지만 가슴으로 와 닿아서 제가 더 감사하고 기쁘다는 표현을 하고 싶어요.
수하 승하가 더 행복한 아이로 자라는 모습이 그려집니다.
어제는 함께 참여를 못해서 아쉬움이 컸지만 앞으로 함께하며 서로의 감정을 알아보고 코칭해 주는 행복한 시간을 보내요.
감사합니다.
아이들을 위해 조금 더 공부하고 신경쓸 수 있도록 자극 주셔서 너무 감사합니다
@수하승하맘 저도 감사합니다 ♡♡♡