8월 3일 토요일 keep it up study.. (No. 13)

[Alex Jung]

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Topic 1. How to Make Someone Fall in Love with You

You can't make someone fall in love with you because, simply put, you can't control the way someone truly feels. But, you can create a situation in which any inkling of love has the chance to flourish and develop into a deep love.

1: Love yourself. Whether you're goofy, silly, crazy, quirky, smart, reserved, or whatever, how can you expect a person to love you if you feel unlovable? You've got to show this person how awesome you are, but first you need to know how awesome you are. Build up your self confidence. Now, this doesn't mean you have to be loud, boisterous, arrogant, chatty, or forward. It just means getting to a place where you're comfortable in your own skin. You can be secure, sweet and humble all at the same time.

2: Share a good laugh. It's been said that laughter is the sound of love. If you share many laughs together, you're both going to be a lot more receptive to love. However, don't put on a show, or make yourself a clown just to make someone laugh. The best laughs are spontaneous, and result from having a positive attitude towards life.

3: Pace yourself. You might be crazy about this person, but if you want a steady kind of love (rather than a fling that flares and fades quickly) then you're going to need to be patient and take your time. Don't be obsessive or suffocating. Give him or her the time to think about what life could be like with you by their side. You can't force someone to love you, and trying to hurry things up can ruin the courtship altogether. Let things progress at a natural pace, or fade out of natural causes.

4: Get to know the person inside out. Always be accepting and open-minded. He or she will sense this and feel like you're the only person who truly knows them and thus, the only person they can be their uninhibited selves around.

Warnings

Before trying this exercise, take a good look at the person you will be trying this technique with. You will want a person of good character, with good morals, who will be receptive to you as a human being.

Be selective, this is really an exercise for you and about you gaining more control over your love life and life in general. Use good judgment when practicing this technique.

There's always a chance your heart will be broken.

If that person is mean to you and you like that person you have little chance.

Q.

1. Among these tips, what is the most effective way?

2. Except appearance, what are attractive factor??

3. Have you ever ruin good friendship because of "fall in love"?

4. Do you believe in Fate ?

5. We can see some people who are really good at relationships, what is the common factor of them?

6. Do you love your family? how about your brothers and sisters.

Which do you want to have better between sister or brother that you can choose?

7. What do you think of cohabitation before wedding?

8. What are you going to do if your G.F/B.F want to do plastic surgery ?

Topic 2 - How to Increase Your Courage: 7 Tips

What is courage?

Courage is the ability to face danger, difficulty, uncertainty, or pain without being overcome by fear or being deflected from a chosen course of action.

Here are ways to train your courage:

Tip no#1: Start something new.
It’s hard to be a beginner again. It takes courage to learn something new and to be a newbie in amongst more experienced people.

Tip no#2: Go somewhere you’ve never been before.
Too often our life is on a track that has little variation. Do you always take the same way home from work? Or go to the same restaurant for a meal? Try going somewhere new.

Tip no#3: Say what is in your heart.
Do you sometimes suppress the true words that want to come out? I’m sure we all do that at times. What holds us back is fear. A good way to train your courage is to say something positive about a person – even if you’re nervous of how they’ll receive what you say.

Tip no#4: Speak to someone you don’t know.
Imagine being at a party where you don’t know most people. That can feel daunting. You’ll feel a lot better, if pluck up your courage and start a conversation with someone you don’t know. Ask them what they do, where they live, or what they are passionate about.

Tip no#5: Stand up for someone else.
If you see someone at work being treated unfairly, what do you do? Do you speak up – or remain silent. It’s the same with office gossip. Do you ever defend the person who is being run down? Try standing up for someone else – you will feel your courage grow.

Tip no#6: Learn to shout.
If you practice martial arts, one of the first things you learn is to shout. I’ve experienced that many people – and especially women – have forgotten how to shout. Their self-esteem is so low that they don’t know how to raise their voice. I suggest learning to shout. You can go to martial art classes, walk on the beach, or shout into a pillow. The shout that comes from the belly is a tremendous source of energy and courage.

Tip no#7: Dress how you want to
Our society has strong rules about how we are supposed to dress at certain occasions. Maybe you have a dress-code at work that you need to follow. Make sure that you intentionally dress how you like when it’s leisure time. Express yourself through your clothing.

These seven tips will help you to train your courage. Remember, it’s the little moments that add up to great courage.

Q.

1. Let's talk about these seven tips. Do you argree with that tips? If you disagree, Why?

2. Do you have a great tip ? If you have, Tell us!!

3. When do you need courage? Share your experience with your group members ?

4. Have you ever been forgetful or ashameful because you did not have courage?

그럼..

See ya..~~

[Alex Jung]

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[Amelie(staff)★]

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[jina87]

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[Frederick]

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[Alex Jung]

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[Charisma]

참석합니다!!

[Charisma]

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