■ 소중(所重, precious)한 인연(因然, match)을 아끼고 서로 사랑하는 것이 진정 행복한 삶이다. ■

잔인(殘忍, cruelty)하게도 인간은 백 번 잘해줘도 한번의 실수(失手, error) 를 기억한다.(Cruelly, humans remember one mistake even if they are good 100 times.) 사람의 마음은 간사(奸詐, cunnin)해서 수많은 좋았던 기억보다 단 한번의 서운 (瑞雲, clouds of good omen)함에 오 해(誤解, misunderstanding)하고  실망(失望, disappointment)하며 틀 어지는 경우가 참 많아요.(People's hearts are often misunderstood, disappointed, and wrong by just one disappointment rather than many good memories.) 서운(瑞雲, auspicious clouds)함 보 다 함께한 좋은 기억을 먼저 떠 올릴 줄 아는 현명(賢明, wise)한 사람이  되세요.(Be a wise person who knows how to recall good memories with you first, rather than being disappointed.) 먼저 고맙다고, 먼저 미안하다고 말한다 면 사람관계는 나빠지려고해야 나빠질  수 없습니다.(If you say thank you first and sorry first, relationships can't get worse only when you try to get worse.) 사람 관계에서는 이기고 지는 것이 없습 니다. 먼저 고맙다고 먼저 미안 하다고  말하세요.(In relationships, you never win or lose. Say thank you first and sorry first.) 참, 이런거 아세요?(By the way, do you know this?) 식사 후 적극적으로 밥값을 계산하는 이 는 돈이 많아서 그런 것이 아니라, "돈보 다 관계를 더 중히 생각하기 때문"이고,(It's not because you have a lot of money, it's because you think about relationships more than money,) 일할 때 주도적으로 하는 이는 바보스러 워서 그런 게 아니라 "책임이라는 것을  알기" 때문이고,(It's not because you're stupid, it's because you know it's responsibility,) 다툰 후 먼저 사과하는 이는 잘못해서  그러는게 아니라, "당신을 아끼기 때문"  입니다.(The person who apologizes first after arguing is not because he did it wrong, but because he cares about you.) 늘 나를 도와주려는 이는 빚진 게 있어 서 그런 게 아니라, "진정한 친구로 생각 하기 때문"이며,(The person who always wants to help me is not because he owes me anything, but because he thinks I'm a true friend,) 늘 카톡이나 안부를 보내주는 이는 한가 하고 할 일이 없어서 그러는 게 아니라, "마음 속에 늘 당신을 두고 있기 때문" 입니다!(It's not because the person who always sends me kakaotalk or hello is free and has nothing to do, but because I always have you in my heart!) 잊지마세요! 소중한 인연을 아끼고 서로 사랑하는 것이 진정 행복한 삶이란 것을.(Don't forget! Cherishing precious relationships and loving each other is a truly happy life.) = 朴圭澤, 華谷·孝菴公認大法師(佛學硏究員)의 좋은글 중에서(Park Gyu-taek, Among the good articles of Hwagok and Hyoam's official a great judge Dharma-Bhanaka (Bulhak Research Institute) =