10 things introverts do that seem weird to others (but are really not)
Posted 28 Jun 2023, byLachlan Brown
Ever been in a social gathering and noticed that one person, comfortably seated in the corner, is silently observing, lost in their own thoughts?
Odds are, you’ve just spotted an introvert.
While their behavior may seem enigmatic or standoffish to their extroverted peers, the truth is that introverts just have a unique way of interacting with and understanding the world around them.
So, let’s uncover these introvert mysteries and shed some light on 10 peculiar habits that introverts often exhibit, which might leave extroverts scratching their heads.
These are behaviors that may seem odd to some but are actually quite typical and natural for our introverted friends.
So, whether you’re an introvert, an extrovert, or somewhere in between, buckle up for an enlightening exploration of introversion.
According to psychologist Dr. Marti Olsen Laney in her book The Introvert Advantage: How to Thrive in an Extrovert World, introverts have a longer neural pathway for processing stimuli.
This means information runs through a pathway that is associated with long-term memory and planning.
It’s also a more complicated journey, which explains why introverts take some time to respond, preferring to think before they speak.
In contrast, extroverts have a shorter pathway, which is associated with the here-and-now reaction, making them quicker in responding to stimuli.
So, when introverts take breaks during social events, they’re simply allowing their brains to recharge from all the stimulation.
Far from being ‘weird,’ it’s a smart way to enjoy the party without feeling overwhelmed.
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