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무익한 대결
의미있는 상호작용
영어 이야기 2051
interaction
[intərӕkʃn
상호작용
상호영향
우리나라만 아니라 전세계적으로 문제가 되는 것은
서로 대화가 부족하다는 것이다.
가장 유익한 대화를 많이 해야할 가정 (특히 부모와 자녀 사이)
그리고 학교에서의 스승과 제자와의 불통이 문제다.
누구나 잘 아는 사실이지만
심리학자들은 이런 주장을 한다.
Since most people are addicted to their cell phones,
there is very little INTERACTION among people
who need rich dialogues.
대부분의 사람들은 그들의 휴대전화에 중독되어 있으므로
유익한 대화를 필요로 하는 사람들 사이의 상호작용이 거의 없다.
그것으로 끝나지 않는다.
Children with a social INTERACTION impairment could have other mental illness symptoms too.
사회적 상호작용의 장애를 지닌 어린이들은 다른 정신적 병 증세도 가질 수 있다.
interaction 은 인간간의 상호작용에 대해서만 사용되지 않는다.
After years of humans’ INTERACTIONS with the environment by polluting its rivers,
the earth becomes damaged and irreparable for us to live in.
강물을 오염시키므로 인간의 자연과의 상호작용이 있은 후
지구는 우리가 살기에 위험하고 회복할 수 없게 된다.
위에서 심리학자들의 주장을 소개했으나
더 구체적인 글을 공유하고 싶다.
The psychological impact of a moment of social connection
'사회적 연결의 순간에 대한 심리학적 영향'이라는 글에서
What feelings and thoughts commonly arise in meaningful INTERACTION
무엇을 느끼고 생각하느냐 하는 것은 의미있는 상호작용에서 생겨난다
Meaningful INTERACTIONS involve feeling "psychologically" near other people—
connected, close or touched.
의미있는 상호작용은 심리학적으로 다른 사람들과 가까이 있다는 느낌을 포함하는데
다시말하면 연결되는 것 친밀감 그리고 감동받는 것 등이다.
흔히들 다른 문화와 언어를 사용할 때
상화작용이 형성되기 어렵다고 하지만 '긍정적'이고 순수한 마음을 가지면
그런 장벽은 무너지게 되어있다.
We can see the INTERACTION between productive people from two different countries,
who try to learn about each other’s cultures.
(다인종 국가인 미국에서) 우리는 두 가지 다른 나라에서 온 생산적인 사람들 사이의
상호작용을 볼 수 있는데
그들은 서로의 문화에 대해 배우려고 노력하고 있다.
Most of people don't want confrontation between the ruling party and the opposition parties
but meaningful INTERACTION.
대부분의 국민들은 여야 간의 갈등이 아니라 의미있는 상호작용을 원한다
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Updated June 28, 2023
Reviewed by Ray Parker
KEY POINTS
Meaningful INTERACTIONS involve feeling "psychologically" near other people—connected, close or touched.
erformers and their audience
When the teacher saw the interaction between children from two different countries, she was pleased to see that they were learning about each other’s cultures.
It has been a demanding dialogue, a rich dialogue, with genuine interaction on both sides
It's not in the abstract; it's the interaction with the environment.
Interaction in a Sentence
After years of humans’ interactions with the environment by polluting its rivers, the Earth became damaged and irreparable.
When the shy child rarely spoke to his classmates, the school psychologist required at least one social interaction with a friend from school each day.
Since most people are addicted to their cell phones, there is very little interaction among people in a waiting room.
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Since most people are addicted to their cell phones, there is very little interaction among people in a waiting room.
There's not enough interaction between the management and the workers.
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The interaction of the two groups produced many good ideas.ave Smallen Ph.D.
A Shared Existence
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The Psychological Impact of a Moment of Social Connection
What feelings and thoughts commonly arise in meaningful INTERACTION
Updated June 28, 2023
Reviewed by Ray Parker
KEY POINTS
Meaningful INTERACTIONS involve feeling "psychologically" near other people—connected, close or touched.
At best, people experience what psychologists call "positivity resonance," a mutual spiral of shared joy.
Study participants report feeling affirmed in who they are, and feeling good about themselves in some way.
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In my research, I explore the subjective psychological experiences that people have when they connect with others. I’ve written elsewhere about how we might connect with people via many different kinds of social interactions, yet in my studies, I’ve found that people often point to specific psychological experiences that accompany a feeling of connection, regardless of when, where, how, or with whom they connect.
mid-14c., accioun, "cause or grounds for a lawsuit," from Anglo-French accioun, Old French accion, action (12c.) "action; lawsuit, case," from Latin actionem (nominative actio) "a putting in motion; a performing, a doing; public acts, official conduct; lawsuit, legal action" (source also of Spanish accion, Italian azione), noun of action from past-participle stem of agere "to do" (from PIE root *ag- "to drive, draw out or forth, move").
Spelling with the restored Latin -t- begins in 15c. The meaning "active exertion, activity" is from late 14c. The sense of "something done, an act, deed" is late 14c. The meaning "military fighting" is from 1590s. The meaning "way in which (a firearm, etc.) acts" is from 1845. As a film director's command, it is attested from 1923.
The meaning "noteworthy or important activity" in a modern sense by 1933, as in the figurative phrase a piece of the action (by 1965), perhaps from a sense of action in card-playing jargon attested by 1914.
No "action" can be had on a bet until the card bet upon appears. If it does not appear after a turn has been made, the player is at liberty to change his bet, or to remove it altogether. Each bet is made for the turn only, unless the player chooses to leave it until he gets some action on it. [from "Faro" in "Hoyle's Games," A.L. Burt Company, New York: 1914]
But there are uses of action as far back as c. 1600 that seem to mean "noteworthy activity." The meaning "excitement" is recorded from 1968. In action "in a condition of effective operation" is from 1650s. Phrase actions speak louder than words is attested from 1731. Action-packed is attested from 1953, originally of movies.
word-forming element used freely in English, "between, among, during," from Latin inter (prep., adv.) "among, between, betwixt, in the midst of" (also used extensively as a prefix), from PIE *enter "between, among" (source also of Sanskrit antar, Old Persian antar "among, between," Greek entera (plural) "intestines," Old Irish eter, Old Welsh ithr "among, between," Gothic undar, Old English under "under"), a comparative of root *en "in."
A living prefix in English from 15c. and used with Germanic as well as Latinate words. Spelled entre- in French; most words borrowed into English in that form were re-spelled 16c. to conform with Latin except entertain, enterprise. In Latin, spelling shifted to intel- before -l-, hence intelligence, etc.
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For example, a central aspect of meaningful interactions is the phenomenon of feeling psychologically near to other people, which is why we use metaphorical terms that denote proximity—like connected, close, bonded, or touched. We describe how we feel about those we have satisfying interactions with, even if we weren't physically near that person (for instance, if we are talking on the phone). In fact, neuroscience research shows that the distance in familiarity that we feel with other people registers in our brains in a similar way as distance in terms of space or time.
There are also other, less abstract, patterns of thought and feeling that participants in my studies often report as accompanying this sense of psychological closeness, such as an uplift in emotion, a sense of feeling affirmed, and a sense of safety.
Mixed But Uplifted Emotions
The emotional tone of a moment of connection can vary from painful grief to profound joy, but I’ve found that people tend to report a positive uplift in their emotions regardless of the kinds of feelings that primarily color an interaction.
At best, people experience what psychologists have termed "positivity resonance," a mutual upward spiral of shared joy. On the other hand, most human interaction is complicated, and we often experience a mix of positive and negative emotions in meaningful connections. Sometimes we feel somewhat anxious communicating with a certain person, even if we ultimately find ourselves laughing warmly together. Or perhaps we are connecting with a friend who is sharing about their struggles and we are struck by compassion and sadness despite feeling a lift of gladness that they are opening up to us.
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Emotional uplift can simply come in the form of gratitude for the connection itself. For example, when sharing grief with another person in mourning we may not feel any happier (indeed we may not want to feel happy), but we may be warmed by appreciation for being able to grieve together. Such gratitude or appreciation usually shows up when a social experience is personally meaningful to us.
Feeling Affirmed in One’s Self
Generally, participants in my studies report feeling affirmed in who they are, meaning the interaction left them feeling good about themselves in some way. Indeed, we often leave meaningful connections with a sense that we matter—we felt valued in that moment or feel that we added value to someone else’s experience.
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If someone listens to us deeply we will feel that we matter to them, just as we will feel a sense of mattering if we effectively offer them a supportive ear. If we are able to show up for other people supportively, we are also likely to feel competent, a core psychological need. Other experiences of feeling affirmed may be a sense that we are worthy of inclusion or belonging or that we are able to be our authentic selves.
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Safety, Calm, and Comfort
Importantly, we tend to feel a sense of safety over the arc of meaningful interaction.
It is common these days in popular culture to focus on meaningful connections that occur when we make ourselves vulnerable, meaning we are opening up in a way that may not feel emotionally safe. What I believe discussions about vulnerability in social interactions often fail to mention is that we aren’t likely to feel connected if our expressions of vulnerability are not met with understanding, validation, or care.
Interacting with caring others can help us to regulate our emotions. So we might enter an interaction feeling emotionally activated and vulnerable, but through the experience of engaging with someone who we experience as caring, we come to feel more grounded and safe. Thus, even in social interactions where we are taking an emotional risk, we usually leave feeling calmer or more secure.
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Some sense of safety is generally useful for engaging in ways that help us to connect. The basic mechanisms that allow us to connect face-to-face, such as the ability to smile, laugh, speak with a warm tone of voice, or listen with open attention may not be accessible if we are overwhelmed by anxiety and stress.
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Cultivating Uplift, Mattering, and Safety
These common experiences point to ways we can engage intentionally with each other to create conditions where a feeling of connection is possible.
Though we cannot control how other people perceive us when we interact, we can try to attend to each other with sincere interest, doing our best to help others feel comfortable and to communicate that they matter to us.
Possible ways to express that we value others could include:
Allowing folks to engage their competencies by supporting us.
Listening and considering their point of view, even if we aren't sure we agree or can relate.
Sharing with them something of ourselves that we wouldn’t share with just anyone.
Supporting them in a way that goes just a little bit beyond what might be expected of us at that moment, or simply expressing in words how much we care about them.