A voice came from heaven: “You are my Son,whom I love; with you I am well pleased.” Mark 1:11
Ellen, a thirty-four-year-old mother of three, enrolled /in an art class /at a local community college. One day her instructor announced that [the assignment /completed on the first day of class] would be included /in a notebook //that was to be a major part of her grade.
“May I do another project?” Ellen asked the instructor /in an anxious voice. “I don’t have the first one /anymore.” The instructor asked [what had happened to the earlier work]. Ellen replied /with a trace of pride /in her voice, “It’s on my mother’s fridge.”
Though your relationships with your children naturally change /when they become adults, it doesn’t mean that you stop [being parents]. You can still look for ways /to honor the achievements of your grown kids, to affirm their positive choices, to show your pride /in the men and women () they’ve become. When you do, you’ll find yourself developing new levels of mutual appreciation and respect /with your maturing sons and daughters.
If our heavenly Father chooses [to part the heavens]/ to announce His pleasure in His Son (Mark 1:10–11),
we can certainly make the effort /to celebrate the accomplishments of our own children.
You might start /with that empty space /on your refrigerator door.
Before you say good night…
How will you show your grown kids [that you’re still proud of them]?
In what ways have your parents affirmed you /as an adult?
How did those affirmations make you feel?
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Father,
critical, dishonoring words seem to slip so easily from our lips. By
the power of Your indwelling Spirit, help us by our words and deeds to
build up, encourage, and celebrate our children…and each other, too, as
husband and wife. Amen.