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<p><font size="5">[내편으로 만드는 대화의기술]</font></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">​</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">안녕하세요</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">^^</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">​</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><a href="http://m.gfmarket.naver.com/sticker/detail/code/brown_and_conys_loveydovey_date" target="_blank" "=""><img alt="brown_and_conys_loveydovey_date-1" src="https://img1.daumcdn.net/relay/cafe/original/?fname=https%3A%2F%2Fstorep-phinf.pstatic.net%2Fbrown_and_conys_loveydovey_date%2Foriginal_1.png%3Ftype%3Dp50_50"></a></span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">​</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">오늘은 상대방을 내편으로 만드는 대화의기술에대해</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">알아 보도록 할께요 </span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">잘 봐두시다가 써 먹는 방법도 좋을거</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">같네요</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">^^</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">저도 마찬가지고요</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">^^</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">​</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><img width="701" height="151" class="_photoImage" id="MjAxODA2MTdfMTE5/MDAxNTI5MjI4NDcwMDI5.5XD4hQLC1TuIRTxTjnwSN7o0uMN-5Q-IGeRaPLBrIAgg.nlzu3Ccmi_GfajSF3EFHW3bMMyMWbj1eZeWVIjPduo8g.JPEG.alabamast3/K-001.jpg" style="cursor: pointer; rwidth: 701px; rheight: 151px;" alt="" src="https://img1.daumcdn.net/relay/cafe/original/?fname=https%3A%2F%2Fblogfiles.pstatic.net%2FMjAxODA2MTdfMTE5%2FMDAxNTI5MjI4NDcwMDI5.5XD4hQLC1TuIRTxTjnwSN7o0uMN-5Q-IGeRaPLBrIAgg.nlzu3Ccmi_GfajSF3EFHW3bMMyMWbj1eZeWVIjPduo8g.JPEG.alabamast3%2FK-001.jpg"> </p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><br></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">상대를 한단계 위로 본다는 느낌을 주어 </span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">상대방의 자존심을 세워준다</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">​</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><a href="http://m.gfmarket.naver.com/sticker/detail/code/moon_and_james" target="_blank" "=""><img alt="moon_and_james-2" src="https://img1.daumcdn.net/relay/cafe/original/?fname=https%3A%2F%2Fstorep-phinf.pstatic.net%2Fmoon_and_james%2Foriginal_2.png%3Ftype%3Dp50_50"></a>​</span><br style="clear: both;"><img width="701" height="151" class="_photoImage" id="MjAxODA2MTdfNjIg/MDAxNTI5MjI4NDcwNjUy.91Wl0hCjVmqCjaJIC_WrLj1Ss8nnuqIacFJUqhWYuU0g.Rkxif8pWOxhkom-BtPq-fEbPhXNcFkdDwKn384FQT8gg.JPEG.alabamast3/K-002.jpg" style="border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); cursor: pointer; rwidth: 701px; rheight: 151px;" alt="" src="https://img1.daumcdn.net/relay/cafe/original/?fname=https%3A%2F%2Fblogfiles.pstatic.net%2FMjAxODA2MTdfNjIg%2FMDAxNTI5MjI4NDcwNjUy.91Wl0hCjVmqCjaJIC_WrLj1Ss8nnuqIacFJUqhWYuU0g.Rkxif8pWOxhkom-BtPq-fEbPhXNcFkdDwKn384FQT8gg.JPEG.alabamast3%2FK-002.jpg"> </p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><br></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">"잠깐만 진정해" 직접적인 말보다 </span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">기침,큰동작으로 자세바꾸기 등</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">주위를 환기하는 행동을 하면</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">말이 느려진다</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">​</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><a href="http://m.gfmarket.naver.com/sticker/detail/code/moon_and_james" target="_blank" "=""><img alt="moon_and_james-3" src="https://img1.daumcdn.net/relay/cafe/original/?fname=https%3A%2F%2Fstorep-phinf.pstatic.net%2Fmoon_and_james%2Foriginal_3.png%3Ftype%3Dp50_50"></a>​</span><br style="clear: both;"><img width="701" height="151" class="_photoImage" id="MjAxODA2MTdfMTY2/MDAxNTI5MjI4NDcxMTY3.uLZUNx4QMfL0aRDvcDDrLEE96LZpKDO0mYpox2XvxNsg.6EouijtcmRVrk4YRKNjqJ6Qxy0N6mlvxtxH6XLTlvVgg.JPEG.alabamast3/K-003.jpg" style="cursor: pointer; rwidth: 701px; rheight: 151px;" alt="" src="https://img1.daumcdn.net/relay/cafe/original/?fname=https%3A%2F%2Fblogfiles.pstatic.net%2FMjAxODA2MTdfMTY2%2FMDAxNTI5MjI4NDcxMTY3.uLZUNx4QMfL0aRDvcDDrLEE96LZpKDO0mYpox2XvxNsg.6EouijtcmRVrk4YRKNjqJ6Qxy0N6mlvxtxH6XLTlvVgg.JPEG.alabamast3%2FK-003.jpg"> </p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><br></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">"맞는말이야 역시 예리해" 라고 </span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">인정하고 칭찬해 주면 공격하려했던 </span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">상대방의 에너지를 흡수할수 있다</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">​</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><a href="http://m.gfmarket.naver.com/sticker/detail/code/moon_and_james" target="_blank" "=""><img alt="moon_and_james-4" src="https://img1.daumcdn.net/relay/cafe/original/?fname=https%3A%2F%2Fstorep-phinf.pstatic.net%2Fmoon_and_james%2Foriginal_4.png%3Ftype%3Dp50_50"></a>​</span><br style="clear: both;"><img width="701" height="151" class="_photoImage" id="MjAxODA2MTdfMjQ2/MDAxNTI5MjI4NDcxNDY0.PSshrz1fK6cIzi13zS0Q_MZcghV6EcR5mo32l39V1tEg.9CV5uz_JB3e6TSxDG4fOajQlYX_A75wW7Td9waalhgQg.JPEG.alabamast3/K-004.jpg" style="cursor: pointer; rwidth: 701px; rheight: 151px;" alt="" src="https://img1.daumcdn.net/relay/cafe/original/?fname=https%3A%2F%2Fblogfiles.pstatic.net%2FMjAxODA2MTdfMjQ2%2FMDAxNTI5MjI4NDcxNDY0.PSshrz1fK6cIzi13zS0Q_MZcghV6EcR5mo32l39V1tEg.9CV5uz_JB3e6TSxDG4fOajQlYX_A75wW7Td9waalhgQg.JPEG.alabamast3%2FK-004.jpg"><br style="clear: both;"></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">​긴장해서 말을 잘 못하는 사람이 있다면</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">시선으로 메세지를 보내주는것이 효과적이다</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">​</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">발언을 요구하는 부드러운 행동이다</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">​</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><a href="http://m.gfmarket.naver.com/sticker/detail/code/moon_and_james" target="_blank" "=""><img alt="moon_and_james-8" src="https://img1.daumcdn.net/relay/cafe/original/?fname=https%3A%2F%2Fstorep-phinf.pstatic.net%2Fmoon_and_james%2Foriginal_8.png%3Ftype%3Dp50_50"></a><br style="clear: both;"><img width="701" height="151" class="_photoImage" id="MjAxODA2MTdfMTYz/MDAxNTI5MjI4NDcxOTEw.p7xCxuMExijAlxjlg16eoUxPbyq4yaxe0GJZi8mReBkg.vi3QnzGG9TKZmcpir5AiazLTAlPGF_u51vh81b3fBQMg.JPEG.alabamast3/K-005.jpg" style="cursor: pointer; rwidth: 701px; rheight: 151px;" alt="" src="https://img1.daumcdn.net/relay/cafe/original/?fname=https%3A%2F%2Fblogfiles.pstatic.net%2FMjAxODA2MTdfMTYz%2FMDAxNTI5MjI4NDcxOTEw.p7xCxuMExijAlxjlg16eoUxPbyq4yaxe0GJZi8mReBkg.vi3QnzGG9TKZmcpir5AiazLTAlPGF_u51vh81b3fBQMg.JPEG.alabamast3%2FK-005.jpg"></span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">​</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">사람은무의식중에 상대방의 목소리톤를 따라간다</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">똑같은 방법으로</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">당신의 목소리톤을 낮추면</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">상대도 격양된 목소리를 진정</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">시킬수 잇다</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">​</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><a href="http://m.gfmarket.naver.com/sticker/detail/code/moon_and_james" target="_blank" "=""><img alt="moon_and_james-5" src="https://img1.daumcdn.net/relay/cafe/original/?fname=https%3A%2F%2Fstorep-phinf.pstatic.net%2Fmoon_and_james%2Foriginal_5.png%3Ftype%3Dp50_50"></a><br style="clear: both;"><img width="701" height="151" class="_photoImage" id="MjAxODA2MTdfNDEg/MDAxNTI5MjI4NDcyMzU2.2RLDXMz14gMVPCYDAI1W8iOYnSOoROa5VWMhF-q4JIsg.MKAOFu4UL4KB7WoXjerJzlLajPdvE_cosC9AXtcUS9Eg.JPEG.alabamast3/K-006.jpg" style="cursor: pointer; rwidth: 701px; rheight: 151px;" alt="" src="https://img1.daumcdn.net/relay/cafe/original/?fname=https%3A%2F%2Fblogfiles.pstatic.net%2FMjAxODA2MTdfNDEg%2FMDAxNTI5MjI4NDcyMzU2.2RLDXMz14gMVPCYDAI1W8iOYnSOoROa5VWMhF-q4JIsg.MKAOFu4UL4KB7WoXjerJzlLajPdvE_cosC9AXtcUS9Eg.JPEG.alabamast3%2FK-006.jpg"></span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">​</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">"햄버거 괜찮으세요?"</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">아니면 "감자튀김세트는 어때요?"</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">실제로 이 간단한 차이에</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">판매량이 급증했다고 한다</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">​</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><a href="http://m.gfmarket.naver.com/sticker/detail/code/moon_and_james" target="_blank" "=""><img alt="moon_and_james-9" src="https://img1.daumcdn.net/relay/cafe/original/?fname=https%3A%2F%2Fstorep-phinf.pstatic.net%2Fmoon_and_james%2Foriginal_9.png%3Ftype%3Dp50_50"></a><br style="clear: both;"><img width="701" height="151" class="_photoImage" id="MjAxODA2MTdfMjAz/MDAxNTI5MjI4NDcyNzU3.p5tO-t6ij2AZOHoWL0iiCD-7wo4rGSXKfd8t_G4KQ0Qg.chG5J0ZzeVwmdxTpRwV-L1ZJ5bJvDkgPgqKa3eNOKH4g.JPEG.alabamast3/K-007.jpg" style="cursor: pointer; rwidth: 701px; rheight: 151px;" alt="" src="https://img1.daumcdn.net/relay/cafe/original/?fname=https%3A%2F%2Fblogfiles.pstatic.net%2FMjAxODA2MTdfMjAz%2FMDAxNTI5MjI4NDcyNzU3.p5tO-t6ij2AZOHoWL0iiCD-7wo4rGSXKfd8t_G4KQ0Qg.chG5J0ZzeVwmdxTpRwV-L1ZJ5bJvDkgPgqKa3eNOKH4g.JPEG.alabamast3%2FK-007.jpg"></span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><br></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><br></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">"좋은 사람인데 조금 어두운면이 있어"</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><br></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">"조금어두운 구석이있지만 </span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">좋은사람이야"</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><br></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">사람은 마지막에들은말을</span></p><p align="center" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">기억한다</span><div class="autosourcing-stub-extra" style="-ms-zoom: 1; opacity: 1;"><p style="margin: 11px 0px 7px; padding: 0px; font-family: Dotum; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><strong style="padding: 0px 7px 0px 0px;">[출처]</strong> <a href="http://blog.naver.com/alabamast3/221300808096" target="_blank"><u><font color="#0066cc">내편으로 만드는 대화의기술 </font></u></a><span style="padding: 0px 7px 0px 5px;">|</span></p></div><p><br></p>
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첫댓글 사람은무의식중에 상대방의 목소리톤를 따라간다
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