a little while after i wrote about making a fuss at the optometrist ie trying all the glasses there and just wasting everyone's time being bratty :P, i felt shameful for my behaviour. i really dislike wasting people's time and my ultimate goal in life is making things easier for other people.
(my love language is time :D)
recently i accompanied my aunt (father's sister) to buy a handbag. lo and behold, i found out we were cut from the same cloth! ME, MY AUNT AND MY FATHER!
auntie told me, she was the only one who could go shopping with my father! there was one time, he wanted to buy a shoe. he had to try all kinds before finding the one he really really really wants. so just imagine how many shoes he tried. my auntie said: A LOT. my auntie said, only she has the patience to shop with my father because she's also in the same situation 😭 she understands 🥺 (and also i don't think they bought any shoe that day...)
ah yes, so we couldn't find her a handbag. and she went through so many stores but couldn't find the one that she likes :(
my philosophy is always, if i saw someone had something that catches my eye, be it gowns or shoes or nightlamp, i would ask straight away where they buy. so that i could get the same.
my life's much easier like that. if i fancy what other people have, ask where to get, and get them. end of story.
so i bought almost 8 gowns of 3 various colours, already 5 pairs of the same Muji shoes of 3 different colours (just going to keep using them), and recently ordered a nightlamp :3 it's so cute :D it's so nice having friend who has similar taste with mine and doesn't mind me having the same item (and she shopped a lot, me? not so much! because too much to think! wasting money 🤔 hurt a lot 😞)
my auntie :'((((( she can't do the same 😭 she fancies a lot of other people's stuff but she worries a lot about what other people might say. and so she already fancied this one handbag that she saw a relative's wife wore. so imagine having dead set on something but unable to get to get your hands on them :(((( it's so sad. and it makes me kind off grateful that i don't care much about what other people think, AS LONG AS I HAVE THE T H I N G !!!~~~~
so. yeah. we're difficult people. we just want exactly what we want, get our money worth, and have little to no regret (if possible) at obtaining something 😬
we're cut from the worry cloth 😗
but i do like my behaviour of sharing something i found useful/like and buy them to others. that one i got from my mother! if she likes something, she'll gift them to people! (i had to buy 26 reusable bags for her because it was cheap, pretty and useful and she wanted to gift them to so many people.)
so the gown that i like, i had bought 3 to my eldest aunty, okay wait, i have a lot of aunties. so i'll just use names i call them.
- 3 to Mak Long (3 different colours)
- 3 to Cik Na (all black)
- 1 to my Mak Njang (beige) (and also after that she went and buy all colours on her own) (also the auntie in the story above)
- 2 to Tay Teh (all black)
hm. it was so worth it because the materials, you don't have to iron it and it's so pretty too :'( and i like comfy things :') and i'm so grateful they're wearing them a lot :D SO MONEY WELL SPENT! :D 😌
okay end of the story!!! i wanted to tell you something else now. i like the brand Pull & Bear and looook they have shoes with Stitch and his girlfriend ~😇 Angel 😇~ and they also have Care Bear shoes and i'm like. I HAVE TO YELL TO MUNCH MUNCH. hihi
okay that's it from me, thank you for listening 🤭🤭
have a good day today munch 😗
i have 2nd interview tomorrow, and also a lot of other job applications to fill in~~ 😌 pray that i do them instead of wishing for
-✨ m a g i c ✨~