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It’s time to go home, make a dinner for myself and watching telly with cookies....
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But i am scared to go home now. I have two housemates to share a house with. And I
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had a small fight with one of them. She's Chinese girl, I am from china too but lots of times I can not understand her and sometimes I feel she’s been mean to me.
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I am scared to talk to her most of times, because it won't be happy ending.Most of case she turns her face to red and slams the door behind her with the irritation...that is
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it! End of conversation! By the way she doesn’t know say sorry to anyone.
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Last time, she didn't turn off the gas after cooking....actually the fire was still on and
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I was frightened by the fire flame...but it was lucky the fire was on, and I didn't burn my kitchen. When I told her the gas was on, guess what, she was sitting on the sofa and telling me I can switch it off... if it was me, I will jump to the kitchen and turn the gas off and say how sorry I am and will make sure it won’t be happen next time. But she acted right opposite as I expected. I don’t know how you guys will act if you are
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The girl or me…
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It might be my fault; I don’t like the water’s on the kitchen & bath floor. Don’t like they leave empty cups in the living room, hate unwashed chopping board in the sink, the hair in the bathroom…..loads loads. But don’t you think she should apologies if she left the main door opened for whole afternoon, any one can get inside the house.
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Lucky there wasn’t anything lost.
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Things had happened again last night, because of the gas bill, silly me, don’t know how to handle the temper…she’s blame me that I didn’t tell her anything about bills and shout to me…I was speechless….I can not pick any words from my brain…..
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In the end I tried to tell her to stops blame me, why didn’t she ask if she saw any bills on the coffee table -because she never cared. I feel I am bossy in this house because I should tell two guys who’s older than me, what to do or not, when I am going to pay the bills and it would be very nice if they give their parts before I go to post office. (We pay it through the local post office.) …I am an idiot.
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English friends tell me don’t let other people come over me and I need to stand up for me. But on the other hand, mum always teaching me be nice and friendly to them and don’t blame other people, always check from my side.
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What am I suppose to do? I don’t want to go home and see her at all. Silly me..^^
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첫댓글be strong.. when you live with different people sometimes it is very hard to get along...you need to be the strong one. and show them you are not weak... just remember this is a short time thing living with them. soon you will be done with your study.. then you will not have them to worry about.
just keep your mind strong. i feel sorry for you that they are mean to you..and not nice... hang in their my friend. i will pray for you... just try to get along with them for now... so you will relax...and keep up with your studies... just be happy you are not married to them.. hehehe
I think that u need to have a heart-to-heart talk with them. Just keeping it to urself is not a good idea. U will have to face the reality and tell them exactly what u think is right and listen to what they have to say about it. By doing that u all may meet each other half way...
your friend may be selfish! but if you must live with them inevitably, you must find a proper solution. l think that it is necessary for you to make some rules for your good life. written rule!
Thank you guys, thanks for the supports and good advices. I will try to talk to them nicely and friendly…I wish you can change a little about their attitudes…
Hi !! latte^^ i feel sorry to hear that you're having some difficulities with your roommates..you're just o.k.don't be weak. sorry ,can't not being big helps.. let us know the next story..good luck to you !!^^
I cannot believe that you are putting up with these you-know-whats. Listen. They are not willing to cooperate, not wanting to do their parts of house chores, and on top it all, not hesitating to blame you for things that don't go well. It I were you, I would tell them to go to hell and move out asap
첫댓글 be strong.. when you live with different people sometimes it is very hard to get along...you need to be the strong one. and show them you are not weak... just remember this is a short time thing living with them. soon you will be done with your study.. then you will not have them to worry about.
just keep your mind strong. i feel sorry for you that they are mean to you..and not nice... hang in their my friend. i will pray for you... just try to get along with them for now... so you will relax...and keep up with your studies... just be happy you are not married to them.. hehehe
I think that u need to have a heart-to-heart talk with them. Just keeping it to urself is not a good idea. U will have to face the reality and tell them exactly what u think is right and listen to what they have to say about it. By doing that u all may meet each other half way...
your friend may be selfish! but if you must live with them inevitably, you must find a proper solution. l think that it is necessary for you to make some rules for your good life. written rule!
Thank you guys, thanks for the supports and good advices. I will try to talk to them nicely and friendly…I wish you can change a little about their attitudes…
Hi !! latte^^ i feel sorry to hear that you're having some difficulities with your roommates..you're just o.k.don't be weak. sorry ,can't not being big helps.. let us know the next story..good luck to you !!^^
I cannot believe that you are putting up with these you-know-whats. Listen. They are not willing to cooperate, not wanting to do their parts of house chores, and on top it all, not hesitating to blame you for things that don't go well. It I were you, I would tell them to go to hell and move out asap
just kick out her from your house and get a new roomy.