Question 1: Have you ever gotten your ego bruised?
How does it feel?
Did you question your self-worth after?
Or better question is, were you offended at all?
If you were offended, was it because of guilt?
Or if you were not offended, maybe because you thought that what you did was not wrong at all?
Don't you ever question your self-worth if you know you have good intentions. Because your good intention can possibly have good impact on other people (of course if you include them).
You are worthy and you are valued as long as you do the right thing. People can affect us when they do us wrong, some cheat, some are deceptive and some aren't just helpful enough.
Your self-worth should be built by you and not by others. Because other people don't know what you have in your head. Challenge your negative thoughts and reflect, open yourself to different points of views.
Question 2: What can you do about toxic people?
You can't control them but you can stop them from taking over your life. You can remove their toxic energy and stay away from them. They don't deserve any explanation anymore. That is IF you know in your gut that person is toxic and taking over. And how long will you let them into your life and your decision-making?
Another thing is, are you clever or wise enough to see or feel or realize if someone is deceiving, overly dramatic, controling?
I've been removing toxic people in my life or at least try to avoid them, not entertain them. But sometimes I become sarcastic or just become irritated and truthfully snap at them for common sense because they become overly dramatic. You know right? You've read it lol! But wth do I know haha (we need proof lol about the drama) I just answer as it is.
I don't think I would be the type of person to say something I don't mean. Well, I hope I'm not or will not lol! Sometimes you have that gut feeling that they playin' you haha because I've been played before, the dramatic friend who kept borrowing money and saying different kind of shizz. Even if I lost everything back then and didn't see any single centavo from her or any remorse at all? I just decided to stop and block her fuggin arse because she just kept on keepin on haha, she was motivated to lie and steal. I don't know what's up with her now and never want to know anymore.
You just have to stop and kick their arse to the curb 😆. You have the budget to get a P.I. to see how they really are? Do it haha I planned to do that to her before but I didn't have the money. My mom's friend even wanted to involve the police but I didn't have any written proof of the money she borrowed and I deleted all convos with her because I was depressed and didn't want anything to do with her anymore.
Ring any bell for you? May not be about borrowing money but it's all about the money. It's all about the dum dum da da dum dum. By Meja haha I had a cassette tape of her before haha. Disposed all my cassettes, cds and magazine collection hahaha clutter.
wait here is the song lol https://youtu.be/YcXMhwF4EtQ?si=_jtpWuG7w5wQzp8c
So anyhooooo,
You are worthy and valued BUT do the right thing.
And be wise who you trust but if you are in something now that you regret trusting them, it's time to stop them from being in your life now.
How? I don't know what your situation is but for me before with that "friend" I gave her my last money that time and because I didn't know what to do anymore, I just stopped talking to her. It's like I paid her off to stop contacting me 😆 gosh. It was expensive to be her friend hahahahahaha. Oh well, it's over and done with. And I didn't seek revenge. My only "revenge" is thinking karma will take place or maybe have taken place? I dunno. But what I asked is not bad karma towards her, but good karma towards me.
You selfish bitz I hope u fuggin burn in hell for this shizz hahahahhaa just kidding eminem cleaning out my closet https://youtu.be/RQ9_TKayu9s
Ultimately, it is your decision and your action. It is your call. The call. hahaha BSB now in my mind.
https://youtu.be/wMOkm57vu0k?si=9OvyuK6IpvaFb_vV
Disclaimer: Song lyrics do not have anything to do with my post hahahaha. It's just the phrases or titles that always come to me 😆
P.S.
Do I have someone toxic in my life now? Yes, one female. She's starting to show her true colors and I don't like it.