Tango Isn’t for Everyone

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Tango Isn’t for Everyone

https://karenkaye.net/2016/09/12/everyone/

Posted by Epiphany

When someone expresses an interest in learning tango, I often hesitate. I know tango looks fun, sexy and beautiful, but it can be a serious commitment. It’s a hardcore pursuit. Yes, some people casually dance tango as a hobby. But here’s the reality: tango is like a vampire that bites into your heart and changes your soul forever. Once it bites you, you will be seduced into an endless quest that steals your time, money, mind – and your heart. Therefore, be warned…

You better LOVE technique. If you have a passion for nitty gritty, detailed technique that teaches nuances of movement, leading/following, connection, posture and body organization, then you will be captivated by tango. The amount of technique to learn will deeply humble you. If you just want to have fun, remember that your partner’s idea of having fun is usually based on doing this skillfully. Most tango dancers don’t just “play around”. Technique is what makes the dance feel amazing to your partner. If you care about that, awesome! If you don’t, maybe partner dancing isn’t for you….

It takes money. If you aren’t investing in truly learning tango, you probably won’t be dancing much or enjoying it when you do. Private lessons, workshops, tango shoes, milongas, practicas, outfits – it adds up quickly and it’s quite addicting. You’ll drop serious money on private lessons. I know a guy who blew his annual tango budget by February. Tango is like a heroin habit. Only death and paralysis can stop it.

It’s a long commitment. Tango is not a dance that gets mastered in six months or five years. It’s not a “once a week” kind of a dance. There’s no “low hanging fruit” in tango. This is a multi-layered skill that endlessly unfolds for those who seek its elusive mastery. You’ll think you learned a move – and then you’ll spend years learning how to do it correctly. Ochos are only easy when you’re doing them wrong.

And it’s intimate. A good dance for me goes like this. “Hi, I’m Karen”. Seconds later, I have melted into his body and my lips are barely inches from his. It’s four legs and one heart – and we are slowly stripped into total vulnerability as we unveil ourselves through a 9-minute exploration of one another’s skills, potential and expression‎.

By the end, we know each other in ways we may only intuitively understand. I know if he embraces a woman with tenderness, command or caution. I sense whether he seeks the heart, mind or body of a woman first. I know whether he thinks or feels more. I feel where he is confident, where he is shy and where he is selfish. I sense what he hungers for and what he fears. I know whether he sees me as a conquest, a collaborator or an executor of his command. I know if he is a risk-taker, an explorer or an inventor. I know if he approaches tango as an artist, an engineer or an architect. I know if he is a witty conversationalist or a curious listener. I discover what makes him sexy, beautiful and profoundly captivating – even when all he is doing is “just dancing”.

Tango can be insanely difficult. Expensive. Toilsome. Humbling. And deeply unmasking.

It’s not for everyone. For some people, it’s not for them “right now”.

When I began, I was told that I didn’t find tango. Tango found me.

Let tango find you. And be ready when it does, for tango is a relentless thief. It will gently swipe away your time, money and perhaps your ego – if you have the courage to surrender it. Tango unmasks our true character, our vulnerabilities, our weaknesses and our magical unwrapped talents. But only for those willing – and able – to give tango what it asks of us first.

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탱고는 이루기 쉽지 않다는 내용
엄청난 노력과 투자가 필요하다는 이야기
아~ 탱고는 원래 어려운 거 였구나!!!

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영어선생님~~~해석본을 주셔야죠~~~^^

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음::: 제가 한글에 약해서...

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(대충 해석)
탱고는 테크닉을 익히는데 돈도 많이 들고 노력도 많이 들고 긴 시간이 필요하다.
그렇지만 그 친밀감과 깊이는 중독성이 너무나 강하고 강렬한 기쁨을 준다.
탱고를 하다보면 탱고가 당신을 발견하는 경지에 도달할 것이다.
그래서 탱고는 누구에게나 권하기 어려운 춤이다!!!

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감사해요 ㅋㅋ
탱고는 암것도 몰랐던 일년까지가 젤 잼나는듯요 ~~~ㅎㅎ
뱀파이어 비유는 탁월한듯 해요~

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글쵸!!! 이 분 글 정말 잘 쓰시는 듯~^*^

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탱고는 그냥 춤이 아니네요 ! 도 딲는 것이랑 비슷하네요...
좋은 글 감사합니다

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네 맞아요!!! 도 닦는 마음으로 임해야겠어요~^*^