심리치유도서 작가가 말하는 나르시시스트

<div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin" data-link="https://cafe.daum.net/subdued20club" data-link-newwindow="_blank"><a href="https://cafe.daum.net/subdued20club" target="_blank" class="ke-link"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/c66b4a1a23c64192bd183f48a1868843d96257d5" width="288" height="288" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/c66b4a1a23c64192bd183f48a1868843d96257d5" data-origin-width="1024" data-origin-height="1024"></a></div><p style="text-align: center;">출처: 여성시대 68혁명</p><p style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://youtu.be/ISWYmqjmOCk?si=ZY5uC_SOQ98JpBxo" target="_blank" class="ke-link">https://youtu.be/ISWYmqjmOCk?si=ZY5uC_SOQ98JpBxo</a></p><div class="figure-video" data-ke-type="video" data-video-url="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ISWYmqjmOCk" data-video-host="youtube" data-video-play-service="daum_cafe" data-video-width="869" data-video-height="489" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-video-thumbnail="https://scrap.kakaocdn.net/dn/SliQv/hyWg11qVmD/pTaBygCQEtoOyoz4xpKHfk/img.jpg?width=1280&height=720&face=456_108_858_546" data-ke-mobile-mobileStyle="widthContent" data-video-origin-width="869" data-video-origin-height="489"><iframe src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/ISWYmqjmOCk" width="869" height="489" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen=""></iframe><div class="figcaption"></div></div><p> </p><p style="text-align: center;">❕번역기 돌리고 다듬은 거라 오역 있을 수 있음 ❕</p><p> </p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/e852ea23cc0a4e3a5960e38d283a87ce6ae2cdc5" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/e852ea23cc0a4e3a5960e38d283a87ce6ae2cdc5" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">당신은 나르시시스트에게</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/1e7ba291f69f23f58a563c6448fbfcb2fada8ff2" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/1e7ba291f69f23f58a563c6448fbfcb2fada8ff2" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">확실함을 얻지 못할 것입니다</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/9ac7eeb2d7b947287f5c786904a0c145c0d2ca80" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/9ac7eeb2d7b947287f5c786904a0c145c0d2ca80" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">절대로요</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/54002627934a38c6d61fdf01b33438715d755273" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/54002627934a38c6d61fdf01b33438715d755273" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">그들이 당신을 붙잡는 방식은</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/6d85509c9e27402e2b58bff6fe993f46e0dd1988" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/6d85509c9e27402e2b58bff6fe993f46e0dd1988" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">결코 당신에게</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/2b75a41ced17672ff4fac732baaf6b432176c93c" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/2b75a41ced17672ff4fac732baaf6b432176c93c" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">확실성을 주지 않음으로써</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/de79952f582c795d1ce927f6307c262a56cf53bf" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/de79952f582c795d1ce927f6307c262a56cf53bf" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">당신을 혼란스럽게(혹은 헷갈리게)</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/4d9612fa2e2cc114710da4446937ee529164a90d" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/4d9612fa2e2cc114710da4446937ee529164a90d" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">만드는 것입니다</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/1892a568a78be694c51b6b915e8b87721ccaaeda" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/1892a568a78be694c51b6b915e8b87721ccaaeda" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">'예' 또는 '아니오'라는</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/3ece9593f253fab6be3893127c46ffe510e8021d" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/3ece9593f253fab6be3893127c46ffe510e8021d" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">두 가지 대답이</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/c691e3155c31fd241559cfb860a861082b882e8f" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/c691e3155c31fd241559cfb860a861082b882e8f" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">가능한 질문에도</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/2a3cfdaaf201c7ce2292ceba8d5ab9407567d73a" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/2a3cfdaaf201c7ce2292ceba8d5ab9407567d73a" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">그들은</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/e5c39f0b7ae91f3bd9eca39b30e31a0b88ffd3f6" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/e5c39f0b7ae91f3bd9eca39b30e31a0b88ffd3f6" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">5분 정도의 긴 답을</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/0e9211387da6edf3c0b81bfc6e1d9db9226edbdb" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/0e9211387da6edf3c0b81bfc6e1d9db9226edbdb" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">당신에게 합니다</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/2b7e837ea9b8bd25a8e84455f9ef07559ac85198" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/2b7e837ea9b8bd25a8e84455f9ef07559ac85198" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">결국 대답이</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/351aa2d0416d6274bbf5d778f471be5fe96f6b9f" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/351aa2d0416d6274bbf5d778f471be5fe96f6b9f" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">'예'인지</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/e6fa1474bf1770c73f5bef5871cb249510825179" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/e6fa1474bf1770c73f5bef5871cb249510825179" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">'아니오'인지</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/1f01d8c76b6295a89d1a466f747d44f3156cd4bf" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/1f01d8c76b6295a89d1a466f747d44f3156cd4bf" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">알 수 없습니다</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/f5e961ac7752196ce6a23b4a64e8202d3dc37b4d" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/f5e961ac7752196ce6a23b4a64e8202d3dc37b4d" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">그들은 처음에는</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/b66637c160251ef3dfc0dfa6dd323ec65f1c5627" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/b66637c160251ef3dfc0dfa6dd323ec65f1c5627" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">정말 강력한</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/78a3494850c82a0db9a25fa41ecb7c14be7f3e07" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/78a3494850c82a0db9a25fa41ecb7c14be7f3e07" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">신뢰 기반을</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/379db92a66299221a3183c29ed1dd1abd618e7f2" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/379db92a66299221a3183c29ed1dd1abd618e7f2" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">만들어서</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/c4e55d8a24b12f848bf8557c258bf9873fb58bf6" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/c4e55d8a24b12f848bf8557c258bf9873fb58bf6" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">정말 강력한 관계에 대한</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/35d6fdb35b3dfa750929d9fbbf5315e1be228072" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/35d6fdb35b3dfa750929d9fbbf5315e1be228072" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">환상을</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/4b2f6374a8276aaa679e603d351f75d8d3a6ff16" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/4b2f6374a8276aaa679e603d351f75d8d3a6ff16" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">세웁니다</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/dbde49af3a2f9b01a3d925a5a1210fcd47c8101e" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/dbde49af3a2f9b01a3d925a5a1210fcd47c8101e" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">그리고 조금씩</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/5d4a7235056cb718e7b856b5e077b60ad61e9654" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/5d4a7235056cb718e7b856b5e077b60ad61e9654" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">그들은 뭔가를</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/c8f75c12f6c8031b61df2961d0de8b4b03b8d0cf" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/c8f75c12f6c8031b61df2961d0de8b4b03b8d0cf" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">빼앗기 시작합니다</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/f4525ec7efae4c0ed68292f4348006cfc7443103" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/f4525ec7efae4c0ed68292f4348006cfc7443103" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">하지만 당신은 그와</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/2ac4af3f99b42bf2dfc2f02e66353e4976b632e9" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/2ac4af3f99b42bf2dfc2f02e66353e4976b632e9" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">정말로 사랑했던</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/381b75799de8b11a9214e2431e5265f4e004c5f7" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/381b75799de8b11a9214e2431e5265f4e004c5f7" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">그 시절을</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/841f6c44742fae7fd3667c2e937a72c4a3f7f739" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/841f6c44742fae7fd3667c2e937a72c4a3f7f739" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">아직도</p><div class="figure-img" data-ke-type="image" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-ke-mobilestyle="widthOrigin"><img src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/84ed06b953177f96368ca687b2e5eb1ee652c8b2" class="txc-image" data-img-src="https://t1.daumcdn.net/cafeattach/1IHuH/84ed06b953177f96368ca687b2e5eb1ee652c8b2" data-origin-width="410" data-origin-height="729"></div><p style="text-align: center;">기억하고 있습니다</p><p style="text-align: center;">(좋았던 시절을 생각하며 다시 이전처럼 잘 지낼 수 있을거라고 여긴다는 뜻)</p><p style="text-align: center;"> </p><p style="text-align: center;"> </p><p style="text-align: center;">심리치유 도서를 집필하는 작가 Najwa Zebian가 한 말인데</p><p style="text-align: center;"> </p><p style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://youtu.be/lIAwdc9qjTs?si=iZ7BgdC4YAQVXmtJ" target="_blank" class="ke-link">https://youtu.be/lIAwdc9qjTs?si=iZ7BgdC4YAQVXmtJ</a></p><div class="figure-video" data-ke-type="video" data-video-url="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lIAwdc9qjTs" data-video-host="youtube" data-video-play-service="daum_cafe" data-video-width="852" data-video-height="479" data-ke-style="alignCenter" data-video-thumbnail="https://scrap.kakaocdn.net/dn/bi6JP9/hyWgWy30qZ/ezwWmFaF8RjPH2R7NowS51/img.jpg?width=1280&height=720&face=120_218_1150_436" data-ke-mobile-mobileStyle="widthContent" data-video-origin-width="852" data-video-origin-height="479"><iframe src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/lIAwdc9qjTs" width="852" height="479" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen=""></iframe><div class="figcaption"></div></div><p style="text-align: center;">원본영상은 나르시시스트와 연애할 경우에 대한 토크지만</p><p style="text-align: center;">모쏠인 내 입장에서는 연애 뿐 아니라</p><p style="text-align: center;">친구, 가족에서도 똑같이 적용된다고 느낌</p><p style="text-align: center;">영상을 보면서</p><p style="text-align: center;">학교, 사회에서 만났던 사람들이 주마등처럼 스쳐지나감</p>